>>50467 Holy Shit. Unrelated but how is that orange thing called? It made me remember when I played with those things as a kiddo, the nostalgia hit me like a ton of bricks lol.

>>50468 silly worms

>>50468 Guy that made the pic called it Sneef. https://bsky.app/profile/jaqpup.bsky.social/post/3l6qjeuggfv2v

>>50467 you, a big baby >involuntarily using your diaper because you can't hold your potty me, a mature middle >choosing to use my diaper because I'm playing my video game, far too busy with more important things we are not the same

>>50476 Yes! Thank you so much I feel so vindicated. I don't pee myself except when I want to! When I'm with a mommy, sure I'll let her change me but if Im with a little I'm the boss and I'm gonna make sure they know I'm in charge! My ABDL "persona", for lack of a better word, has always been a big kid who was nervous about the whole diaper thing but gets to indulge anyway, knowing he's too big them. The whole like "I'm a big kid! Nobody at school can find out I like this!" dynamic is what I'm after. That makes it easy for me to play with littles because hanging around dumb babies who still wet themselves to steal diapers from is very much in character.

>>50477 >>50476 And us babs absolutely love middles Playmates but also superiors we gotta listen to Its really fun to be teased about being helpless and restricted to bab play. Or being suddenly hushed with a pacifier by another 'bigger' bab :D

Excuse me for being dumb, but what is a "middle"?

>>50485 You've got Bigs Middles Littles Babs Bigs are caretakers Middles are babysitters/littles who have some 'big' privileges like operating TVs or feeding themselves. Littles are wards of middles and Bigs that have to do what they are told and forfeit any adult rights Babs are littles that get further regressed and often aren't allowed to talk, walk, or play with anything other than rattles or blankets.

>>50487 >Bigs >Littles Real age groups >Middles >Babs Mental Illnesses Middles are just Littles that wanted to be sPeCiAl SnOwFlAkEs and ask there mommy and daddy if they can have pullies sometimes instead of their much needed nappies. And don't go calling my Middlephobia. That shit ain't real!

>>50491 So...what are littles that get bossed around by all the other littles? The ones that can't even hold bottles by themselves?

>>50487 Thanks. I've heard "littles", but have not heard of anyone use any of those other terms before. Usually a "middle" would be a "diapered dom/mommy/daddy/whatever"

>>50506 Diapered caregivers are still bigs The distinction comes in the pecking order and who takes orders from whomst'vst'd Bigs can order middles around Middles are treated like littles but still have some priviliges like grown up media and food Littles are subs with zero adult rights and babs basically are basically padded living stuffies

>>50512 very important structural progression!!!!! the hierarchy enables a middle to be proud in their slightly damp pullies when in the presence of a stinky little.

>>50512 Sounds like terms that Reddit came up with

>>50517 Exactly! Also, littles can feel happy that they get to watch cartoons and eat snacks on the floor while babs are confined to playpens with pacis securely locked in their mouths >:D

>>50520 >>50517 >>50506 >>50493 >>50491 >Pictured >A Mommy (Big) a middle and a bab

>>50467 >>50476 Pictured, the proper way that a middle and little should interact

I feel there's always a competition between mids and lids, for who is the real baby (at least when bigs are around). The humiliation of being deemed a demoted middle is so much better than anything little had to offer.

>>50527 >The humiliation of being deemed a demoted middle is so much better than anything little had to offer. For littles yeah they are always trying to tease and bring down middles, and middles are always holding their position over lids And for Babs, the most fun thing is often being teased by littles and mids for how irredeemably helpless they are Everyone wins

just because i poop my pants doesn't mean i can't play grand theft auto :D

>>50548 And just because I'm a bab doesn't mean I have to be...never mind it means whatever bigs decide

>>50548 Sure, but if you want to continue being able to play your big kid games you will look after the babs, or you can join them in the playpen

>>50548 >>50527 >>50517 >>50476 >>50477 Very good, now remember to take the babs out for a walk, they look up to you :3

>>50477 See, for me it's kind of the opposite. I like the idea of being a "bedwetter" that's between somewhere 11-15. Old enough to be yearning for adulthood, yet young enough that it's constantly out of reach. Always trying to distance yourself from more childish things that everyone thinks it's funny you think you're too old for. Especially on the older end you run into a lot of fun scenarios. Wanting to start learning to drive but everyone is too busy and tells you not now and finds your insistence annoying. Feeling petulantly impotent at the fact that your crush at school is passing you over for an older boy who has a car and a job while you have to ask Mommy and Daddy for rides and to buy you things. The humiliating frustration of seeing your friends get to be independent and sassing their parents but knowing you'll still get spanked if you do the shame and the fear that they might find out. And your embarrassing secret causing everyone to gradually begin treating you even younger than you are, backsliding as you watch everyone else progress.

>>51590 >All this totally hot shit My very favorite type of little guy. You are stuck as a little cute baby. You know it deep down. You still have a bedwetting chart with lots of rainclouds stickers. Your parents won't take the rails off your bed till you can be a big dry boy and it looks and smell like a nursery still. Anyone seeing a photo would think it's the room of a 4 year old at most. I hope your little crush gets hired as your babysitter and sees the stacks of pullups and the paddle hanging on the wall. Everyone at school would know the next day and you'd always be labeled the school baby. If you wanna get teased about this a bunch leave a Discord name.

>>51613 Yes! Exactly. I'm glad someone else gets it. In my head I was thinking the babysitter could be a girl 2-3 years older, possibly one of those "teacher's assistants" that helps out for a period or two with the younger grades throughout the day - maybe even in your homeroom. I remember around that age girls of that age range seemed ridiculously hot and intimidating and they always had a fun natural playful dismissiveness like they thought you were a cute but inconsequential little brother. My thoughts were you could gradually discover that she's friends with your crush's older boyfriend and hangs out with them outside of school and given the context may not think watching of telling them about some of the more amusing aspects of babysitting you or even inviting them over during a long weekend when your parents are out of town. That would be hot. I try not to use Discord, though, are there any other platforms that might work better?

>>51621 What other platforms do you use? Also I'm a guy just so you know.

>>51625 Eh, Discord will work. frustrated.middle

>>51628 >>51625 >>51621 Honestly just do roleplay on flist and discords Trying to set up IRL stuff with ABDL fetishes is a nightmare and best left to fantasy. Kind of like being a furry. Its great fun to roleplay and read fiction with others but trying to actually become an anthro is basically impossible and fursuits are basically walking uncomfortable biohazards Leave certain fantasies in the virtual world where they belong.

>>51646 It's hard to arrange stuff, but I feel it's worth it if you really vibe with someone. The last person I hung out with from here was a literal angel. We had fun doing little RP stuff but irl was so much more fun.

>>51646 I'm fortunate I'm in that (for the time being anyways) I live in an area with a kink dungeon and a semi-regular age play party. It's not always great for meeting people for this type of stuff but I've met a few over my few years here and now have a fiance who I can play with whenever I want. It would be fun to find a good top for a scene or two but I'm satisfied. It does pay to get out there even if you don't often hit paydirt.

flooding your diaper whilst gaming really is peak middle fun

>>52720 This is a good cozy vibe. Just hanging out. Doing your thing. Not a care in the world but not in a babyish way. Just in the way that as a kid you could enjoy things and not have to worry about anything else. Diapers might not be age appropriate but they're comfy and cozy and make it way easier to play games or watch cartoons without stopping.

>>52721 >>52720 IMO its peak bab fun to get belittled and teased by a middle Especially if the middle is playing video games or doing something we're not allowed to do.

>>52722 it's so sweet and cute. little getting tattled on to mommy about having a messy diaper (middle is right on the brink of leaking too)