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>It doesn't make sense to me though.
It's the details that make me think the guy is trying to play things up for victim points. The most comical incident I remember of this is how ZQ wrote in her biography about how "terrible" her childhood was, only for her mother to leave a Amazon review essentially calling her a lying bitch as none of that shit in her book ever happened. I mean just look at how the guy even admits that he
ONLY brings this up because both his parents are dead.
Then there's also the fact that I hear much worse horror stories from my father who
DID grow up in Southern California during that same period (The 70's). To where he relates how there was one of his friends where his parents literally ran off to go on a neverending vacation and left the kid to take care of the house and the bills, then there was some other kid who spent the days in school and the evenings working a part-time job with all the money immediately being taken and used to supply his parent's drug habits. Even my dad and his elder sister were often left to take care of the house and their young siblings because my both of my grandparents where never around (
Not because they were irresponsible, but because they were poor, with my grandfather's job only being enough to pay the bills while my grandmother was finding work to bring something extra into the house). Then there's also the fact that my dad was always bullied for being the "new kid" as they were constantly moving around until he was in high school, when they finally settled in California.
THEN he was bullied because he was the only "white kid" in a minority neighborhood.
But also the big difference between Heineman's story and what happened to my dad and the people he knew growing up in that environment is that the latter group never let themselves become victims. Yeah, it probably screwed them up in some ways, but they didn't let how shit their life was be the reason why they couldn't move on. Meanwhile, Becky here:
<I was expected to do house chores, and it was so traumatic that I just "had" to runaway. It's also why I became a woman.
QUICK QUESTION: What fucking stupid-ass emotional teenager
HASN'T entertained the idea of becoming a runaway (or even suicide)? Not for any real and justified reasons, but for some of the stupid shit imaginable. Running off and joining the circus is a cliche for a reason.
I'm not denying that shit parents exist, but these kinds of stories make me think the person just wants to be an eternal victim. Especially since he was "homeless" for "
just a couple months" during a time when teenagers were allowed to be incredibly independent. Hell, my dad also relates how he know this one guy who dropped out of high school, established a surf shop right on the beach, and then spent the days surfing, the evenings running the shop, and the nights
sleeping in that very same shop. Meanwhile today, you get arrested for letting your child walk half a mile to home, or let him play outside unattended.