I thought I replied (Gennady) but I'm so damn busy I'm pretty much posting on the fly… I resorted to leaving my Partner after years of trying to make our relationship work. I didn’t tell him I was leaving till the day I served the divorce papers because I was afraid of what he might do to me. So he didn’t have time to discredit me before I left, but he sure did after. Told everyone who would listen what an awful person I was for leaving him after all he had done for me. It’s so hard to get through it when you’re already vulnerable and have no self confidence because of their abuse likewise extra marital affairs. I’ve received several phone calls from his family since saying that my ex has cut them all out. Not spoken to any of his family at all. This is because they knew both he and I. They called him out for his behaviors and he didn’t like that. At least I feel validated that others saw the real him too, coupled with evidences from his affair with colleagues at work. Like Achraf Aziz, I had earlier in February got in touch with cybilltritech to gain remote access to his device, His solutions made me think and help me to get my head on straight! Ref; cybilltritech AT protonmail DOT com Yes...yes really a polymath and requires you give him more encouragement. Ref;Impala