>>3674
I understand where you're coming from, but I'd like to clarify a few things. When I left the guild, I didn't do so because I had zero interest in hanging out with everyone. I felt overlooked, had a falling out with the people I was the closest to and needed a break. After taking some time away, I came back, at some point hoping to reconnect, but I didn't receive any messages or invitations from people I thought were my friends.
I even joined the guild anniversary where everyone seemed pleased to see me. Yet, during it or afterward, no one really reached out. It wasn't about trying to isolate myself, I even let a few people know I'd still be up for contents if they invited me. Unfortunately, those invites almost never happened.
I never intended to shut people out. I left because I was feeling unseen, not because I didn't want anyone around. It's unfortunate that it just confirmed my impression that the connections weren't as mutual as I'd hoped.
Removing the last FMC member from my friend list was more about accepting the reality that sometimes, even if you do want to stay in touch, the feeling might not be mutual. It's not me blaming anyone or wanting to cut people out for no reason, it's just hard to keep trying when there isn't any reciprocation. I do appreciate the good times I had with some people.