>>23346 Well I write this form the perspective of someone in Canada. I can only really comment on the social impact the wars had on our young men. I don't know how France handled it or if they had differences in their rates of PTSD and other issue.

>>23347 Shit troll is shit. How about you learn to troll.

In a world where children aren't erroneously punished for being childish in the "wrong way", nobody would develop a diaper fetish. Fetishes are reactive psychology. It's just like how freaking out over your son being a little "girly" is the fastest way to turn them into a tranny.

>>23376 My parents were as laissez-faire about toilet training as any set of parents can be. And yet here I am. Also, most trannies are the kids of left wingers, who tend to have extremely loose gender roles and actively try to resist gendered treatment of their toddlers Your theory sounds plausible on the surface but I don't think it passes muster with reality

Personally I think that fetishes and other sexual/gender abnormalities have actually always been the norm for humans. It's just that we're only now reaching the level of industrial and economic advancement to allow people the time, resources, and connectivity to explore them properly. For almost all of human history you might only interact with about 100 people regularly and none of them would share your weird fetish. You'd be too busy struggling to keep yourself alive to worry about indulging in your fetish, not that you'd have access to any fetish toys or even artwork unless you made them yourself. Even if you were rich and could afford to commission an artisan to paint you as a dog shitting itself or as a little girl wearing a cute dress, you'd have to speak to them in person and explain exactly what you wanted them to create.

>>23376 That's blatantly false. Some like the feel. Some like the degradation of a piss bag on them. There are many facets

>>23383 You are correct, the Internet has created a society and generations of degenerates. Now the scum of the earth are finding little communities and cults on the Internet of other scum just like them. They may be secluded geographically but they’re connected through these communities which is enough to slowly normalize abnormal behavior in their minds. Over time they start to think “gee, maybe I’m not so fucked after all and maybe expressing my fucked up fetish to normal society should be ok.” Instead of hiding their shit from others, they start pushing for “awareness” and “acceptance” and with enough push and enough time they actually get it. The Internet was a mistake

>>23394 Maybe you should take your own psuedo psych bullshit and ask yourself why you so desperately want others to be "degenerate" compared to you. Retard.

>>23376 Lol that's objectively false. I never even got grounded my entire life and I have memories from four years old related to being interested in diapers. What happened to you isn't the world standard anon.

>>23376 >In a world where children aren't erroneously punished for being childish in the "wrong way", nobody would develop a diaper fetish I understand your point, for me and many others too abld is mostly about humiliation aspect. Forced to use childish clothes, maybe even diaper. Maybe even baby car seat and ask caregiver nicely to unbuckle them <3 But how about foot fetish and such? I don't think feet, shoes etc. are considered humiliating but still are one of the most popular fetishes

>>23376 My parents were fantastic and extremely loving. If anything, I developed an age regression / abdl fetish because of the exact opposite of what you're saying. I felt most loved, secure, and carefree as a child. I think you lack perspective though. My other fetish is a shrinking fetish and my parents never shrunk me or got angry about me reducing myself to the size of an action figure lmao. I didn't even realize I had a micro fetish (which became my most powerful fetish) until I was in college. Imagine if your theory was true, anyway. >Small child is torturing animals >Punish child for torturing animals because that's fucking psychopathic behavior >Now they have a gore fetish, should have just let them stab frogs with sticks! So grateful that you are a retard spouting nonsense backed up by no data at all.

>>23430 Look, he's wrong that it's the -only- reason, it just seems to be the most common reason. Some people pick up fetishes from other people, or T.V. shows, or whatever. But, there's no surer way to make a fetish than having something fucked up happen during childhood.

>>23376 Umm, no. I've never been punished for being childlish. Actually I don't remember any real punishments at all, maybe due to I was that "nice, quiet and good behaving child"

>>23430 >My other fetish is a shrinking fetish and my parents never shrunk me Lmao

in my country, most parents put their kids in daycare when they are around 1-2 years old, so that they can go back to work. in my case, our daycare was segregated, with one section for 1-3-year-olds and the other for 4-5-year-olds. most of the daycare workers treated the kids fairly, but there was one worker who would always threaten me with diapers or putting me together with the younger kids if i acted out. i specifically remember a dream i had several times at that age, where i would be dressed in only a t-shirt and a diaper holding a stuffie alone and exposed in the playground.

>>23430 There's a difference between being pressured to act a certain way with good reason vs without good reason. When children are taught that "adults are always right and don't need to explain themselves", they begin accumulating all sorts of issues. You can say there's any number of reasons why a child shouldn't do certain things, but if they're all reasons that will never actually be told to the child, it doesn't matter. They will either go along with the charade and invent their own (bad) reasoning, or reject authority all together for being unreasonable.

>be 7yo boy >Family is going through a financial rough patch >Both parents have to work full time to make ends meet >Parents get a family friend to babysit us >She's just started college and needs some money >She starts to be a normal face often times there 4-6 days a week >Anyway, I like diapers, parents know this and they do everything to make sure I can't get any >She just keeps the diapers right out in the open >I'm a terrible thief though and make it super obvious I'm up to no good >I'm constantly peeking around the corner to see if she's looking >Run into my brother's room and snatch a diaper before running back into my room and closing the door >Immediately start changing into it getting it taped up >She opens the door and I rush to cover up with my shirt >I knew I've been caught red handed >Do you want to wear diapers? >No... >If you want to wear diapers you have to clean your room >She closes the door and I'm stunned >Normally Id get a lecture about how I'm not a baby anymore and that I need to grow up till I cried >I did as I was told and cleaned up >I wore nothing but a shirt and diaper out in the living room >I was pushing it but she didn't seem to care >It was the most liberating thing I had ever experienced getting to prance around enjoying the poofy crinkly diaper without having to worry about getting caught >It became a regular occurrence for me to wear diapers doing anything, weather it be homework, chores or computer games >One weekend she was changing my brother and she asked if I wanted to be done too >I was hesitant but I jumped up on the changing table and she took off my pajamas >She rubbed me down in diaper cream and taped me up tight and secure, better than any of the attempts I've ever made before >The diaper felt so official after that almost as though I was diapered for real. All day I couldn't help but play with it >Having her diaper me was a rare treat but enjoyable every time she did it >My brother took forever to potty train, iirc he was 4 by the time he stopped wearing in daytime and he was a bed wetter for a very long time after >Parents switched to pull ups though and it just wasn't the same after that >I started loosing interest as the novelty wore off >Wasn't till highschool I started feeling extremely strong urges to wear diapers again >Finally I gave in and bought some bambinos online If my parents caught me with my current stash I'd be so screwed

>>25037 Fictional stories should go over here https://8chan.moe/abdl/res/20133.html

>>20734 How does someone not jack off till theyre 16?

>>25055 bro i didn't jerk it until i was 20. being hyper-sheltered will do that to a fella.

More of a teen story but whatever >Be kid suffer from incontinence >Parents are very pissed every time I wet myself >Makes me feel like trash. >Takes a while but I build up some resistance but can come out without warning >Parents don't want me wearing diapers so they instead insist on training pants >They work but I hated wearing plastic pants. >Fast forward though to highschool >My life is kinda miserable >Basically spend every free moment going to the bathroom so I don't piss myself and leak through the training pants >Grandpa offers me a job. I help him out with his ranch and he gives me $40 for a day. >Not a bad deal. >Get working a few days a week basically doing chores >I get a sudden realization I could use the money to buy the diapers I've always wanted >Took me a few weeks of walking down from school into town and standing outside the pharmacy/medical supply store. >I finally get the bravery to walk in and get the depends tabbed briefs >I hide it in my backpack and get picked up I felt like I got away with a major heist >That night I opened up the package and I strap it on. >Excited I sit down diaper only playing games on my computer >When I got the urge to pee I just let it go >It was the most liberating experience in my entire life to just sit there and pee. >I sat at my desk till midnight with a soaking wet diaper. >I was so thrilled I tossed that one in a plastic bag and put on another one >It took some getting used to but after a while I was finally able to sleep through the night and just pee rather than getting up to go to the bathroom every couple hours >I knew it had to get better than that so I finally started looking into diapers more seriously and discovered ABDL and the like >I see the options out there at the time like the tykabkes overnights, rearz safari, and bambinos >I see the insane absorbing numbers and know I have to try it >Finally get brave and order some rearz safari on Amazon >It finally arrives >Parents intercept it >Shit >Get into long argument about how im not trying to be a baby and how this is what I want ect >Parents relent and let me keep the diapers but make it clear I have to pay for them >No fucks given as that was how things were already working >The abdl diapers became my special treat for lounging around all day while the store diapers were my go to for an occasional outing or returning from school >Parents never quite got over it and would talk about how disgusting and embarrassing it was for me to wear diapers but I moved out at 19 got a good job and now I can wear whatever the fuck I want diaper only if I wanted to

>>27606 Why are parents like this?

>>27610 >When I got the urge to pee I just let it go >after a while I was finally able to sleep through the night and just pee rather than getting up to go to the bathroom Literally that's why. No encouragement to try to improve

>>27610 Simple >Get treated like shit >Take it out on children instead of doing something about it >This compounds over generations

>>27611 Unless you work a job where its impractical to wear a diaper at night (like the army) sleeping through the night is strictly better than interrupting every single sleep to pee once or more per night.

>>27643 Yeah, I have to agree on this. If I have to occasionally wake up to pee at night, thats fine, but if it was literally EVERY night, and nothing I had tried had changed that, I would probably prefer just wetting the bed in my sleep and wearing diapers to manage it so I could sleep uninterrupted. Even if I was only awake for like 2 minutes to get up, pee, and get back in bed, thats a major disruption to your sleep cycle and you feel it the next day, especially if it happens several days back to back. And even more so if you dont have the ability to just drop back to sleep easily, and instead have to lay there for half an hour or an hour or even more before you can get back to sleep. Thats why Im honestly against the concept of bedwetting alarms for kids to bed wet nightly, especially if they wet more than once every night. Like again if they *occasionally* wet the bed like once every few weeks or something in that range, that might be one thing. But Waking up a kid 1 to 2+ times a night, and training them to do that on their own even without the alarm in place, to me is just asking to destroy their sleep system, and its gonna make their brain not perform nearly as well as it should be. I know I'm biased cause abdl and all, but still.

>>19924 Thats really cute! Any other stories?

>>9183 kids are so unbelieveably spoiled these days with modern diapers I tell you what back in my day, it was more like size 5 was a current modern size 3! If it didn't fit, it was all plastic, so you ain't gonna stretch that fit! I should know, I tried to walk around with a diaper contained within my underwear in the mid 90's as a 4 or 5 year old - which was too easily caught by the supervising parents and grandparents, given a time or two. Apparently, when you can't get it to fit, if you just stuff it in your underwear, it will make you waddle. Or I was just a dumb kid who let himself waddle regardless.

Some of the weirder diaper habits I hadd as a child: raising my legs during diaper commercials and pretendding I was being changed sneaking off and stealing my brothers diapers if I heard the word diaper in a movie piling sand against my crotch at the playground and making baby noises

Some random situations I can remember I must've been about 2 and vividly recall my mom laying me down for a change. She said, "You're too old for these," and I felt disappointed. Potty trained normally, but I always wanted to be back in diapers. I did the whole "toilet paper in underwear" thing a few times which was not at all satisfying. In daycare, the ladies in charge would take us all to the bathroom. They'd take our diapers off, we'd go, then everyone would be in underwear the rest of the day (til lunchtime I think). Again, feeling of disappointment. I'm not sure why I would arrive diapered since I'm pretty sure I was dry in the daytime at this point, but it was the same for everyone else, so maybe it was just easier for our parents. Pullups weren't a thing, at least not IRL; think I saw them first on a commercial. >Diapered at night >Wake up, realize I can take my pants off myself >Take my diaper off, run into living room >Proudly present to mom No idea why I did that lol Had a younger brother who got a sample pullup in the mail (EasyUps maybe?) and I was insanely jealous. >One random morning when I was maybe 3-5, home alone with my dad. >Pack of diapers sitting out in the open, genius decision to try one on before we had to go to the barber >Wait til he was in the shower. >Try putting it on, stick tapes to my tummy for some reason (like you would normally, just didn't pull the front up I guess). >Eventually get it on, super excited. >Hear shower turn off, run back to couch and watch TV. >Hide under blanket when dad comes out >"Let's go potty" >I'm screwed >Dad takes off the diaper, "You're not a baby" >Never try on baby bro's diapers again for some dumb reason I was a bedwetter until 1st or 2nd grade. Always sucked having to wake up in the middle of the night to grab a towel. Knew of Goodnites at that point, but my parents didn't get any and I knew asking for them wouldn't work.

>>39960 "must've been about 2" Did you mean 12? Also, I remember doing the toilet paper in the underwear trick as well.

I would wet the bed up until I was halfway through 6th grade, so around 14. It wasn't because I couldn't control it, it was more that I was too lazy to get up to go to the bathroom at 4:36 in the morning, and would just pee the bed instead. I'm surprised I never got put into diapers or pull-ups because of it. By 14, I could do my own laundry so I guess it made me go like, "wait, this is what it's like to wash wet bedding? I should really stop wetting the bed."

>>39970 Ah makeshift diapers. Not very fond memories lol. I would shove a bunch of paper towels in whitey tighties.

>>39970 Nope. I have a few memories from that young, what I mentioned is one.

>>39971 >6th grade, so around 14 6th grade is 12 max. so around 12. I had a cousin that pissed the bed until he was almost in high school (he might've kept going into his freshman year) - he was like 13-14 when he stopped. I tried to get him into diapers with me but I think he was too ashamed about the whole thing to enjoy it, though I got him to wear once or twice. He -said- he just thought it was weird and I dropped it after a couple times realizing that either he legit wasn't into it or at least wasn't able to enjoy wearing around me.

I didnt remember being in diapers but I did have some accidents that upset my parents a lot. One in particular I remember is when I was very young and I was watching TV on the couch. I don't know how long Id been holding but I suddenly had to go, bad. I got up and ran as fast as I could but ended up exploding in the kitchen. I just remembered stopping dead in my tracks and looking down at all the pee hissing out of me, the huge puddle it was creating at my feet. My mom wasn't happy i wiped it up (poorly) with the dish towel. Later I discovered being into omo and would hold all day at school. At the end of the day Id come home and strip and lay on the bathroom floor and let loose. I also liked to hold bath towels between my crotch and pee into them. Nobody ever figured why they "smelled". I have also seen my siblings pee before and found it exciting. My favorite was taking a bath with my sister, playing together with toys. She suddenly tensed up and i saw a yellow cloud coming from under her. I asked if she was peeing and she gave me a stiff no. But it didn't bother me and i peed too afterwards when we went back to playing.