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Pro-Mommy Thread Baby 03/09/2023 (Thu) 13:11:14 No. 23422
Has anyone here ever visited a Professional Mommy-Dom, or a generic Dom who was ABDL friendly? What was it like? What was done during the session? Was she actively engaged the whole time?
never have, but there is a surprising number of them in florida.
>>23423 Who is notable in Florida? I can only find Momica & Mistress Mercy who are quite expensive.
>>23422 I was a pro-mommy and "what its like" really depends on what YOU want and how well you craft your narrative. For example, I've had people drop all kinds of things they want to do like breastfeeding, paddling, etc. on me, but when I pulled out my breast or tried to paddle them lightly, they just noped right out. One person just wanted to be held for like 8 hours straight while watching cartoons. I tried to be more engaging, buuuuutt that just weren't cooperative. If you want to see a sex worker, it would be good to have a goal in mind of what YOU want and check reviews to validate if the person provides a good atmosphere.
>>23426 > I tried to be more engaging, buuuuutt that just weren't cooperative. So what did a good session look like then?
>>23442 The best sessions are usually short, imo. Come in, do a bath, powder, let them color in coloring books, breastfeed or babyfood, play some baby games, and then tuck them in and leave. Usually between 2 to 3 hours, but anything longer and you kind of run out of things to do. Sexual littles will usually want some sort of fucking/edging/vibrators somewhere in between those activities, so kind of just fit it in based on each person. That's for AB's mostly, the DL's are pretty much "put diaper on me, give me fuck" and those tend to be just an hour or so. I got a lot of requests for multi-day sessions, but people tend to lose the magic around the 4-5 hour mark. The problem is just like a weekend there is only SO MUCH you can do before you just want to crash and watch tv, or you get tired of playing with baby games, or bored doing the same activities. I will admit I did probably turn down a lot of multi-day ones because people wanted to be dressed in bright frilly sissy stuff + diapers and go out in public, but I have ZERO interest in appearing on the news or being arrested/kicked out/banned from a local place. Unfortunately a lot of people have that public humiliation fetish, but there's a time and place (namely kink events) and not in front of 10k people at disney world.
>>23424 i think mistress mia does abdl stuff. not sure. mistress mercy is who i would suggest over anyone else. dommy mommy k in ohio is another i would trust. just be careful because some retard just got scammed for like 5 thousand bucks a few weeks ago.
>>23478 How many mommydoms do you think would agree to a one to two hour session of Diapering-Messing-Changing-Breastfeeding-Screwing? I'm 19 and would find it ideal if I lost all my virginities this way (Im a kissless hugless handholdless virgin).
>>23670 mommy mercy, mistress mia, and dommy mommy k wont have sex with you. i think dommy mommy k would do everything else listed tho.
>>23670 as said by >>23671 A lot of mommies don't have actual sex with their clients, some do. Sadly, that requires doing your own research into the dom/mom. some just do platonic mommying, some do the full sex acts and same with messies. A lot of mommy's do messies, but may have rules/requirements on it like an extra fee.
>>23426 Hi. I hope you are doing well and I hope you read this. I've been looking for someone with your level of writing skills. I hope this doesn't sound freaky, but I would be more than happy to pay you for your services. Online or RL. Please let me know.
>>23861 No thank you. Appreciate it but I have my own stuff going on :)
>>23893 Understood. I would really reconsider but I understand and stuff is more important. At the same time, I've been trying to find someone that is actually interested in doing this. if you have any recommendations. Please do let me know :)
>>23426 Jesus christ you sound insufferable. Thank god you turned those guys down so they didn't have to listen to you whine about people asking you for services you put yourself out there to engage in. Cringe.
>>24063 Did someone just make up something in their head and get angry about it? LOL
>>23424 Not sure if she still does sessions but Nicole ashe was fun and only charged 200 for an afternoon. She's older ~60s but has a full nursery. Mommy Crystal was more fun and daring and we actually dated for a bit but she kept asking to borrow money without paying me back. But if you just keep her as a pro mommy and only pay after you meet up she's great. (Apparently she also sometimes has her sister join now) Fuck this captcha
>>23670 If you're on the east coast of Florida I'm pretty sure mistress ceecee will do all of that but I know she bumps up the price a little for poopy diapers and she doesn't do sex but has a friend who does so that might double it. Still you'll probably be under 600/hr
>>24069 >she kept asking to borrow money without paying me back I knew a pro-domme (not mommy) who had a boyfriend who, despite her having sessions, still had to pay for her rent and the majority of the relationship. In that situation, it's because the domme only wanted to do sessions and not an 8to5 or work for "the man" in any way, so it might be the same issue with that. She probably just didnt make enough strictly on sessions. Just assuming but from the pro's I know, a lot of them do struggle financially due to a lack of 8to5 and using sessions as a supplement for missing income. >Fuck this captcha I failed one like 18 times. It hurts my eyes so fucking much
>>24072 >>24072 >I knew a pro-domme (not mommy) who had a boyfriend who, despite her having sessions, still had to pay for her rent and the majority of the relationship. Fuck that really sounds like me. She was even mostly a pro domme who discovered she kinda liked abdl too
>>24069 Are they on Fetlife or have their own websites? Couldn’t find them with a cursory Google search.
>>24069 Who is Mommy Crystal? Do you have links to her social media?
>>24141 >>24137 @ceeceeprettyfe1 is her Twitter but she really doesn't post much of her abdl stuff on there. It's kinda funny tho how she tries to put up a mean front online but is too kind to keep it up in person I usually just text tho because she rarely checks Twitter 772-207-8007
>>24143 I fucking love mommies to put up a mean facade but are super sweet and tender in private, I wish I was closer to the states to book up a session with her, escorts/dommes here are fucking shit.
>>23677 I've yet to find a pro mommy who also turns tricks. If there's one anywhere in the continental US, please tell me about them.
>>24275 I managed to find few dominatrix/escort open to kinks, it does take some time, patience to explain them about ageplay - regression and ABDL and how you want them to play Mommy for you but also engage in some sexual activities as well. In some occasions some retarded ones will freak out and label you a p3d 0 which is not a nice experience but its either that or actually going out, trying to meet someone, getting into a relationship and then, 10 years down the line finding out they are not ok with your fetishes so they take half your things.
I saw one of the big pro dommes who is fairly well known and makes a lot of ABDL videos. She was in town for a convention and was only charging like $100 for an hour long session at her hotel room. It was overall a positive experience, but with ups and downs. My biggest mistake was thinking "Oh, I won't ask for anything too specific. I'll let her do what *she* wants to do so she's more into it." It's a dumb idea because probably 95% of the time pro-dommes aren't remotely turned on or attracted to their clientele. They can, however, vibe off your energy, so if you just focus on what gets you into subspace they'll feed off it. The other mistake I made was handing her the cash upfront which was apparently disrespectful. I don't know if that's a common rule, but it wouldn't hurt to ask specifically how & when to pay if you aren't sending 100% upfront. We spend a decent chunk of the time just talking casually and the more we did I realized we didn't have a lot in common. Our personalities and senses of humor weren't a good match, which really shouldn't matter for an hour-long fetish session, but it kinda pulled me out of it. If I ever do it again with her or someone else I'm just going to get right down to business -- "put me in the corner and tease and humiliate me. Check my diaper by patting the back and rubbing your finger along the leg holes. Tell me you want to take me outside and expose me as a diaper boy (but not actually do that lol)." I mean, get super specific down to the exact positions, name-calling, etc. Obviously I was looking more for a domme than a mommy, but the same concept applies.
>>24408 I have read multiple articles about escorts and never heard that they take money after sex. It's always handled to them as the first thing in the hotel room
>>23426 I've been with my Mommy/wife for about 9 years now. It started as me being a client of hers and we both enjoyed it so much I kind of never left. Now I'm a 24/7 diaper wearer with my own nursery and tons of clothes and toys. But I'm not a 24/7 little even though most of the time I wear onesies and childish style clothing when at home, She was a pro Mommy for about 20 years, It started out as more of a passion of hers to help littles enjoy the side of them and turned into a way for her to find her own forever little. She never offered sex but she did in person, by phone, and Internet when that started to be a thing. She used to make books and programs for her littles to do and keep track of their progress with, part of it would be to describe your ideal visit with Mommy. She used them to get to know her clients better and what they enjoyed or expected when they visited. That helped with keeping things from becoming stagnant or having a lull in the experience for her and the little she was watching. Most of her sessions were an hour or two but some didn't even last that long. Some people get really freaked out once they get into a space they can actually explore their fantasy as it overwhelms them. In the early years, she offered her services for no charge, only taking tips if people wanted to help provide diapers and things of that nature for people who couldn't afford their own. Which worked pretty well but obviously, there are some horror stories and people who tried to take advantage of it. Like wanting to talk on the phone for several hours and constantly calling even after the session was over, or showing up to her place unannounced and banging on doors and windows crying and shouting to be let in. To the point she had to start charging little amounts so she actually knew who she was talking to and inviting over to her place and knew they were fairly serious about having a session with a Mommy. But that came with its own set of downsides like wives and girlfriends calling her and asking what she was doing with their men and people worried about what appears on their family credit cards. She no longer does sessions and doesn't really make her workbooks anymore since the program she was doing served its purpose of her finding her own little one. She still likes interacting with the community though and is thinking of starting a munch group when we get to someplace a bit more private where we can have play parties so I have more in-person little friends.
>>24699 Very touching story! I am glad you were well behaved enough to earn your place beside a pro-mommy. When I was a pro, there wasn't a single little I wanted amongst the pool of people who used my services. All of them were extremely self centered, entitled, or creepy. I ended up getting with another pro-mommy for co-op sessions and she ended up playing with me outside of sessions when she found out I was a switch. Now im her babygirl like 90% of the time. I switch when she's in a subby mood, but life's pretty good rn.
>>24719 Thanks, I try to be a good boy for her but it is hard following all sorts of rules sometimes. Glad you were able to find someone as well. Really not something to take for granted. My Mommy was actually in a relationship with another little one before me, Some big-time rich businessman (who has their own diaper company now) but they cheated on her and got another girl preggers. So that didn't end well for them. There are loads of littles out there who don't know how to be fairly normal and who don't realize that the person they're seeing is a human that has their own needs. So they just end up treating them like a robot or something. A lot also expect Mommies to be mind readers and play out a scenario they were very vague about to the exact specifics they in their mind have come up with. Then get upset when something doesn't live up to a fantasy reality. If you're going to visit a Mommy I'd suggest being as specific as possible, curbing your expectations, setting aside some time to talk and get to know each other instead of just showing up and wanting to jump right in. It'll make things easier for both parties and turn it into a much more enjoyable experience.
>>24730 >be very specific with my desired fantasies >many dommes will simply say to me they are not an actress and will not participate in that amount of details I call bullshit.
>>25779 I'm sorry you're finding it difficult to find someone to dom you. >they are not an actress and will not participate in that amount of details They are human as well, some doms have a standard session they do and won't make a lot of changes to that session. This could be for a myriad of reasons like space, where they live, things they have available, time, etc. Others are more willing to do just about anything and love to improve. It really depends on the individual dom and what you're asking them to do. Like are you asking them to wear a certain color wig and clothes while going under a different name or something? Are you asking them to do an activity that is a hard limit for them? Are your scenarios even feasible to do? (obviously, not all doms can pick you up and carry you, and they can't shrink you and things like that. So try to keep your request based on some form of reality.) The reason I say be as specific as you can is so you and the dom know what the other expects. You're supposed to hold a conversation with them and see what they and you are both looking for and willing to do. If something you want to do is impossible for them, or a line they won't cross and not having that in the scenario is a deal breaker for you then there's no point in continuing dialog with that dom. No harm no foul, it just wasn't meant to be so move and look for someone who IS willing to do those things for you. Say they won't or can't play out the scenario you've spent months concocting and fantasizing about. exactly the way you want it. But they can do SOME of those things and are willing to work that into the play session. Are you going to freak out over a minor change or are you willing to compromise? Then you should try to find something that works out for both of you and continue to work towards an understanding. Using this conversation time also allows them to feel you out and you to feel them out. They obviously need to know who and the type of person they're inviting into their home/space. Both parties need to know who they're meeting with for their own safety, if someone comes off as unhinged in text and conversations you probably wouldn't want to be around that person in real life because it could put their own life in danger.
>>25810 I am certainly not asking for specific material stuff, I actually have my own toys, diapers, clothes, ANYTHING baby I have it so they dont have to worry about anything in that regard. Being carried would be awesome but finding a domme who is willing to deal with diapers is so rare that I never even entertain the idea of stuff like being handled/dominated/carried because I know it just is not feaseble (eventhough I am quite short and under 110lbs) I keep myself respectful and honest all the time, but I have been scammed once when asked for a deposit for a session so nowadays I am EXTREMELY careful in that regard, MANY professionals take offense to that, even in some rare occasions I feel a bit reluctant about giving dommes my phone number because I have dealt with a few panic attacks after I was scammed because the person has not only my money but my real full name........... My main desire is engagement on a mental level, on a role level, on a roleplaying D/s - Mommy - baby level... its about the dynamic we can create together. I want regression, of course not physical, but mental regression to an extent I feel many dommes dont comprehend. I want words to crack down my willpower, I want tenderness to melt my adult armor, I want gentle caresses that confuse and make me feel naughty, I want someone who can play an adoring Mommy who constantly reminds me "babies cant walk, crawl for me little baby" "babies cant talk, babble for me baby" "no thoughts in babys head, just happy feelings in that baby mushy brain" if I disobey, Mommy is allowed to correct me and put in my baby place, not in a cruel way in a maternal way, in a way where she simply gives me a statement and I know it to be true, because she is Mommy and she makes all of the rules, I dont want to be jacked off and on my way, I want her to take her time, tease me, heck I would LOVE IT if she says she HATES babys with big peepee and that I should have a tiny weewee because I am a baby, all adultness must be removed from me, because anything else feels off after all I am a baby, I am Mommys baby and she will make sure I am her perfect baby, with enough love, training and reinforcement of baby activities, behavior, training, thoughts and conditioning.


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