most gay guys i interacted with irl are like this. i don't want to be around 99% of them.

Same, they have an untold amount of trauma and think not being snide for even a second is a sign of weakness. And of course they hate if you even fight back

>>4437 I've noticed that in general people act snide a lot. Sincerity is something to be hidden or mocked.

>>4440 again it's probably a self-defense mechanism. I wonder how they act if they love you

>>4441 Unsure. I am not and never will be a femboy because of genetics. Not being able to look the way I felt kinda fucked with me for a long time. I've become numb to that pain at this point, but once and a while it's sharp enough to remind me it still hurts. I know It won't happen for me; that's life. I've also never been with a femboy so I can't speak about how they treat others. Some are just bad people, others are, like you said carrying a lot of baggage. It's been my impression that most gay guys only want to meet and fuck. As a guy I get it, but it's not what I want. I've always been burdened by being the romantic type. I don't want to fuck someone I want to love someone.

>>4442 Kinda the same except I don't want to be a femboy, I just yearn for male romantical and intellectual kinship

>>4444 I also understand that feeling.

>>4435 What about masc ones ? Ive met like 1 and he was quite nice. >>4441 In my experience its heavy mental illness I wouldnt blame em if they were more reserved/careful or even rude but in my experience they wanna destroy u mentally lol... >I wonder how they act if they love you Makes me wonder if thats even possible... at least for those that I met. Im sure that there are a few amazing ones out there. >>4442 >I am not and never will be a femboy because of genetics. Not being able to look the way I felt kinda fucked with me for a long time. Can relate.. would be a lot easier to date em in that case too but well...

>>4450 The masc ones are fine but you would absolutely never know they're gay from a glance. >but in my experience they wanna destroy u mentally lol... yeah a lot of them have male BPD

This is just people in general, I think. Had the same experience with more masc guys and women. Everyone wants to be a drama queen.

>>4453 >yeah a lot of them have male BPD In my experience it was mostly NPD lol (can be hard to spot so its worse..) >>4454 Not true for me... the problem here is if a guy is a femboy/twink in my experience theres 99% chance theyre horrible ppl... with trannies for example its more like 50/50 and with women it can be quite random probs like 60% (theyre boring to talk to and have too many simps so I kinda avoid em). Ovsly all of this is just my personal experience, but Im so disappointed with fem fags... after seducing me all of em destroy me lol... kinda wish I never got interested in em in the first place.

>>4434 I think it's two things playing together. 1. They're young. That means inexperience, and ignorance. They might be treating you like shit due to not knowing better, but then... 2. Beauty narcissism. They're hot shit and they know it. Pretty privilege in effect, they can treat others poorly and get away with it, done overtime this can become an habit. Avoid any deeper relations with these. From my — limited – personal experience I got to agree with OP. Sometimes tolerable, but always something fucked with them. Depression, suspicion, too horny, etc etc.

>>4515 2 hits the nail on the head

>>4515 >2. Beauty narcissism. They're hot shit and they know it. Pretty privilege in effect, they can treat others poorly and get away with it, done overtime this can become an habit. Avoid any deeper relations with these. Sounds like nothing that a good night of rape can't fix.

>>4518 tea for two... and two for tea...

>>4517 Thanks lad >>4518 I can't say no to that. There's a possibility they'd like it too tbh.

I've got to agree with this anon >>4454 and I would add that there's just so many dishonest people out there. I don't even try, it mentally exhausts me.

>>4434 there is no love in me. my parents were both cruel, conniving vultures who sold me and took my life away from me. i know what is inside, and there is nothing there. life is a bleeding pain that hasn't yet ended. i have reached a state where this does not bother me. here's how it goes, i'm paraphrasing subtle things here. "something is wrong! something is wrong! you're wrong! it doesn't work! there's no hope! you're stuck here! its too late!"; countless variations of such on repeat until these alarms no longer register because life has taken on a different shape and it no longer suits to dwell on the dead past, because to dwell in one place is to die there and become woven into the tapestry. so there is a dull pain, but it can become sharp again. so for a long time, the only thing that could make me feel "happy", or elated, or whatever, was to be pretty, to be worshiped for my features. indeed, i kept several suitors at once. would you not do the same? it is foolish to deny ourselves the unique benefits life gives us in deference of a delusive ideology of submission and "purity". this only ever leads to circular regrets. who wants to "hang out" and waste time doing nothing? oh yeah, we're going to die soon. its only a matter of time. did you know that death is right around the corner? unless you have coke. then we can go places. :)

>>4621 ok schizo you're still ugly as fuck

>>4622 fuck u bitch ur a faggot :3 suck my 4 incher!! BLEHHH! xP get fucked retard!

>>4621 You talk about not dwelling in the past, yet you let the pain that was brought upon you in the past define your present by eluding it, and for what do you replace that? >to be worshiped for my features Alright psycho. >deny ourselves the unique benefits life gives us in deference of a delusive ideology of submission and "purity" I prefer not to focus entirely ln that for my peace of mind, because that's bound to bring nothing good. >who wants to "hang out" and waste time doing nothing? ... I do. >oh yeah, we're going to die soon That's a pointless argument to make. If nothing mattered because everyone and everything dies out, why bother to live at all. >>4625 You may be pretty on the outside but you're ugly as hell on the inside.

>>4626 my guy hitting this twat with the mickey stare. Bet >>4621 isn't even cute enough to justify the shitty behavior and he knows

>>4626 >>4627 ur jst jealous its okay pookie x3 keep malding tho.. lol if you had it you would enjoy it too :) >That's a pointless argument to make. If nothing mattered because everyone and everything dies out, why bother to live at all. Yeah bro people been asking the same question since forever. Thats not what I'm getting at though, speaking moreso to an immanence of death in an unavoidable, material sense. i am a nihilist in a positive direction. indeed, life has no objective value but you can feed it with a subjective one to a variable degree. "if nothing matters why live at all!!" you have to imbue that shit with meaning fren! also i have a lot of beauties on the inside too.. you wouldn't know about it~ mwah <3 >>4627 "shitty behavior" uhh ok bruh what a crybaby lmao are you the behavior police? >x< :333 bro tried hitting me with the 2017 ass reaction image.. no way bruh no wonder u get no bitches x3 retarded ass

>>4628 >ur jst jealous What makes you think I’m jealous of you, let alone mad? You sound just like a disappointing person so, congrats for proving OP's point? And that's assuming you're actually cute. We don't even know how you look. >i have a lot of beauties on the inside too But oh boy are you out here to show them... ΦωΦ

>>4628 I know you type like a retard for some easy (you)s, I take solace knowing you are ruining your own nogging thinking about even fouler ways to get a rise out of people here. I almost pity you

>>4628 omg, please let me cut for you do you have disc?

>4434 Cranky coz they're hungry