Anyone over a certain age, has a modicum of knowledge and has seen plenty of Trek can tell something is off when og trek is more sexy than nu-trek and many ways the most(?) sexy of all Treks.
Almost seems conflicting of how it is even for today if you consider different factors that go back prior to women's suffrage. I'm not exactly sure how to describe it but I think it's multi-faceted when it comes to what accounts to "being OK." Feminism is a word that comes to the forefront for me because on one hand the sexiness is embraced and paraded with sparkling joy but on the other hand it seems to be regarded as, just for clear understanding, "male gaze." The same way that there are women who just want nothing more than to be housewives or moms or both, there women who want and are sexy. But then you have those that just only see a woman acting or doing certain things just appealing to men. If I was around during the 60s/70s and heard of Paglia, idk if i would agree with her then, but i when i learned of her during high school 20 years, sure why not?
i'm rambling but i think some people know what im talking about. i think a good example of a woman i like is Jadzia; she's very open about herself and doesn't shy away from being feminine, astute, and professional. Regardless of having 7 lives of memories, many modern women would look down on her because while she does enjoy her independence, she also fell in love with an overbearing nonce of a Klingon-a-boo (no black jokes please, if ykyk), wanted to settle down and even wanted to have offspring with the Son of Mogh. Those acts/thoughts alone make her brainwashed and another female slave to """men.""" Personally I think that heightens her appeal as a women and her sexiness, but alas I am man, so a modern woman considers that biased. idk how to finish my jadzia speech, but to conclude she's a traitor, she's guilty of wrong-think/wrong-act and ultimately is from a gone era.
Anyway, of the nu-trek i only watched the 3 films and S3 of Picard, but considering who the EXE Producers, producers and demographics of the modern writers are, gone are the skirts of Kirk's era and the slight clevage of bajoran women. any female to female kissing will be in partnership and no other possible meaning. modern trek doesn't allow the petite Jadzia, 7 or T'Pol; (see Tilly).
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