>>42682 Only ever told two people, good friends, but they pretty much understood that I got into it when I was a kid and haven’t brought it up since. Not gonna start introducing myself with it though

Not at all. Girlfriend is just as into it as me. Been together a year, met through Eka's. Some of my gaming friends know, and I know some of their interests. Pretty sure my mom knows, but wouldn't care otherwise. Stepdad would probably think it's weird, but I've also discovered some of *his* interests when he gave me his old laptop (always factory reset your devices before giving them to someone d:) I don't go around advertising it, but I don't hide it like something shameful, either.

I already live pretty much in isolation, zero social life If there was someone to find it out, I'd be shocked My sister did find out though, in the most comedic way possible: She went to play games on my PC, saw Eka's open, and asked "Fucking hell, you into inflation?" My response was "Do I look like Andrew Dobson? BITCH I'M INTO VORE." She already called me a monster fucker for being into monster girls, pretty sure she doesn't really give a shit

>>43160 A gf into vore is the dream

>>43131 Yeah same

Oh it'd be so over lol. Where I live people chastise stuff like vanilla porn so can you imagine fucking vore

>>42693 Real

>>43160 Lucky bastard

Told my dad when I was drunk once. He said he understood that it could be difficult. We haven't spoken about it in the 2 decades since then and it wouldn't surprise me if he forgot. I think people here are making a bigger deal out of it than it really warrants. Having a rare/relatively unknown kink is probably more likely to be met with confusion than derision. I'd bet in practice this kind of thing is less likely to get you disowned than telling your parents you are trans or something.

Few co-workers would tease me i'd be idk okay with that they figured out i was a fur fag and were fine with it i bet they know smth more to it, but my dad ouch fuck idk. he'd probs shoot me ig

>>42998 Happened twice here. Im not the guy that goes around advertising it but im also not trying to hide it beneath ten layers so classmates "dug" it up when talking about fetishes (girls are supririsingly more lax about speaking of sexual stuff.) subject veered onto vore, they got the karbo treatment and basically even if i said im into it they all shrugged and moved on. Never had it brought up again, im still friends with some of the girls after i graduated and that was back in 2015. Mom also knows but im pretty sure she shrugged it off and forgot if i brought the subject back up so.. all in all? yeah im pretty lucky.

Best case scenario, family is depressed and my father hates me more, gets send to a shrink and have my life ruined. My friends won't have that much of a problem, since I don't advertise it and keep it to myself, even if they know. Worst case scenario I either have to kill myself or flee the country.

>>42682 my family would think its weird but wouldn't care and forget about it i have a few friends who know, they just playfully tease me for it but dont seem to think much of it

I recently graduated from uni and I had told two people about this. I was always kind of soft looking can’t help it bc I’m Korean. It wasn’t until uni that white women began to fetishize me and this confidence led me to reveal my fetish to my first girlfriend. Massive mistake. In retrospect I should have started my explanation with why I enjoy the thought of it. Because for me it’s all about giving everything you have to someone you love. But I just went with the dictionary definition. She told her friends and my social life never recovered once it spread around. Second time was last year actually. I met my girlfriend on hinge and we went on a few dates. She is Brazilian so she has a body type that is kind of curvier around the hips and her belly area is what I would call soft. She noticed me staring one night and asked me if I was into bellies so I explained as delicately as I could why I liked vore. Still together, still in love, still nervous that if this ends for any reason my personal life will go up in flames. But at this point fuck it. She is getting into it little by little too so I’m unexpectedly happy. I guess, just be honest and cross your fingers.

>>42682 Everyone in my life basically knows about it. It was embarrassing to tell them, but I didn't lose anyone over it, most of them thought it was funny, or really didn't give a shit. It's a harmless fetish, cause it's purely a fantasy. I think of it this way. If its a part of me, denying it, would be denying who am I.

>>46312 You struck gold, marry her.

>>46312 Hang on to her. My last two girlfriends were into vore and it was amazing. Now I'm a broken loser

>>47239 please I just want one gf just once please

>>43160 Fuck you

>>45711 People have attached more biases to the trans stuff because of the political environment. If paraphilic liberation ever becomes part of the political/social zeitgeist more, I would bet more people will be disowned. I cannot imagine having a dad I would say anything like that to, but I'm glad you at least had that experience. It is difficult for all of us.

I used to have this friend (female) who I told I was into something, because of some discussion we were having about sexuality. She basically kept asking me for a year or two what it was... I never told her and I eventually regretted mentioning that. Granted, she was respectful of me not saying what it was because she was a good friend, but she was just so curious. We're not friends anymore, for unrelated reasons. Honestly IDK if I care if she knew, but I didn't feel like telling her, as I didn't always trust her that much with information, and she wouldn't get it anyway, so what's the point? There was also one time back in high school (around 10 years ago) at lunch when me and some of my (sort of) friends were sitting together and vore happened to come up. I was the one in the group that everyone would make fun of. And somehow they landed on the joke of me possibly having it (they basically teased me for anything they could, it was an inside joke), and someone was like "we figured out Anon!" I just shrugged it off and laughed a bit with them and thankfully they dropped it two seconds later... that was the closest I came to disaster. I had one second to convince them it wasn't true. Fortunately I succeeded. Back then I may have considered killing myself. I am friends with a couple of these people to this day and nobody knows. TBH I wouldn't KMS, at least now. Shit, I've lived with worse. But I still don't tell anyone, including lovers, mostly because they wouldn't understand. Just explaining the concept accurately to someone who doesn't know it is hard enough. It took me a while to explain it to my shrink. This all makes me wonder: for those of you who have successfully told people (e.g. a gf), is there any relief you get from it? Most people here are just focusing on the fear, but does it make you feel better on any level, or is it just because you want to have a gf who will play along? And if it does provide relief, what are we all so afraid of?

I've told all my ex-gfs. They were into it and would tease me constantly. It's a funny fetish once you just stop giving a shit about what others think. Mind you, I'm not saying to be an exibitionist, just that you shouldn't be afraid to tell your partners, especially if you are a man. Most girls love deranged men with fucked up needs, and their only desires are to submit and serve them, even if sometimes they play hard around it. Even if they told their friends I wouldn't mind. TL;DR Anons stop caring so hard, you only have one life. You can't spend it all hiding and caring about the judgement of fools. Be true to yourselves and enjoy the fucked up hand you've been dealt.

>>47429 That's what my ex thought about my inflation fetish and obsession with tits and bellies. I think she thought it was hot, especially because I was also a drawfag and I'd shown her my drawings. Maybe she was relieved I wasn't into feet she actually mentioned that once and asked me if I liked feet because I kept giving her massages

>>47438 she had something against guys who are into feet?

I had been caught looking at it a few times while growing up, not really knowing any better. We all shared a family computer in a more rural area so it was probably inevitable in hindsight, given how early I started getting into the smut. Like some people on here have mentioned, most older people are just confused by it more than anything; I think my parents thought it was something benign like pregnancy honestly. I think the closest it came to "getting out" happened in high school. My nosey sister ended up breaking into my laptop and saw vore shit on my computer. She confronted me about it and ended up telling at least one of her friends, which consequently was the sister of a guy I'd hangout with sometimes. He confronted me about it once and I denied it in the most awkward and obviously guilty way possible. I don't really talk to the guy much anymore (kind of unrelated to the other shit, he got married) and he was never really apart of my core group of friends so it wasn't a huge deal. To this day I'm still not really sure who else knows about it but it hasn't really made it back to me in any significant way so I'm more or less over it. TL;DR its not the end of the world if your fetish gets out; it can be extremely embarrassing at first but most people don't really care and the novelty wears off quickly

>>47464 Footfags are freaks

>>47429 This man is too based to be kept alive

>>47429 Agreed!! Confronted my gf about my fetish around 2 months into our relationship and now we are 7 months and still loving each other very much!! I introduced it slowly to her through me wanting to get licked to her biting me to her teasing me and then finally telling her. When I told her she was confused and kind of also glad that I wasn't into feet lol (even tho I was inmy younger days. Nowadays I'm kind of normall towards feet. Not sure how I fell of a fetish tho... would love to hear from somebody if they had a similar expirience). Now she thinks that it's cute and she loves the ideaof always having me around her (in her belly ofcourse). Aside from her I told ybest friend directly and at first he was kind of just shocked but accepted it right away. Nowadays he just teases me about it sometimes. Never told anybody else. What a good best friend. Also gret girlfriend. Love em to bits!!!

Finally had the courage to tell my GF last night, and while she think's its kinda weird, she wants to get involved with it, and help with my fantasies. It's never ogre until it's ogre. You have one life my fellow anons, live it well.

I don't really have a reason to tell anyone lol so I'd rather not risk the chance. Life is good with this fetish hidden

>>42682 It already has. My best friend found out while snooping around my phone for shits and giggles ...I know, I was a retard Luckily I found out about his fetishes *first* and I was cool about it so he was cool about this too we ball

Yeah I'd rope immediately

I got lucky because my GF and I found out about it at the same time. I joined a vore server on Discord and then noticed she was also in it. Needless to say it was a hilarious moment when I casually started a vc and opened with 'hey babe, check the mutual servers. It helps that we're both vore switches. I guess the moral of the story is that one can be truly lucky in life.

>>51736 Lmao that's great

>>47429 Damn you for making me consider telling my girlfriend. (Even though she definitely realizes something’s there since she knows how much I love snuggling against her belly when it’s digesting something and goads me whenever she gets bloated/food baby)