What in the world is this thread all about?

Overcoming porn addiction

>>79815 I don't wake up every day craving to masturbate, I have sex with my wife at least once a week or two. Just like how I only drink one cup of coffee in the morning and only eat 3 snacks a day. It's almost like if you live life in moderation you are happy. God forbid, me a human, deprive myself from any pleasures in this single life that I have ffs. You zoomers are too fucking brainroted with all of these self help, it's only going to make you more miserable.

>>79901 There's some fucking Palestinian kids in Gaza being carpet bombed by Jews and yet you're complaining about liking vore on a vore board. First world fucking problems. Get a grip.

broskis, Imma be honest why waste time questioning why you have a weird and unusual fetish WHEN ALL fetishes are weird and unusual by nature so trying to shame or understand this part of yourself is just not worth the insanity, but For whoever needs to hear this: it's not your fault for liking vore nor does in make you any less of a person, just accept yourself for who you are and know you aren't this place is living proof of that, and don't let a silly fetish get in the way of those that truly matter in your life, also make sure to touch grass weirdos. Also >>79902 that

>>79871 lol saying alt right where no one said anything political, you're already retarded and vore had nothing to do with it

Tanookicatoon type thread

Hey it's me again. I want to apologize for my response. It was backed by my own frustrations with myself and my struggle with this fetish. It had nothing to do with you guys individually. You probably get my point already that this fetish is in-conducive to a healthy sexual moral compass. You know what vore is. You get off to the idea of someone being entirely consumed, held and or obliterated by someone else. I understand it can be a small part of your sexual preference but I'm accounting for everyone who unfortunately base their entire preference off that dynamic. I, growing up, did not know wtf I was doing on the internet in 2006. My preadolescent sponge brain was just soaking up whatever dopamine I could find. Eventually finding vore. I didn't even get to discover normal porn until months later. Yeah my fault but what did I actually know. I wasn't monitored as a kid. I care to change this. Not because other people think it's weird but because I know it's impossible. It's simply unnatural and morbid even in a wholesome lens. I'm still not comfortable with that. To each their own experience though. I know your circumstances are different or maybe you feel the same. Either way, we both know this is far fetched. If you don't care to change this, peace to you. If you do, please don't give up. The universe is math. Every question has an answer which will inevitably shift your lens. Nothing is permanent. Solving these seemingly tiny problems can become a monumental change for you. As it has been for me. Every problem in life can be solved. We just don't have the right questions nor information to solve them in our time. But we always push to improve and resolve. As humanity has done for thousands of years.

This thread is bizarre. It's like finding an Alcoholics Anonymous office in the middle of a brewery. Like, sure, congrats to y'all for sorting your porn addictions, genuine problem so many people, especially younger lads, face, so good on ye. But this "my fetish is a sickness that must be purged" vibe sounds like some "I'm not gay I just love Jesus" levels of delusion. If you think your vore addiction is a separate, greater issue than the porn side of it, then you need a thorough self-analysis of 1. Why it bothers you to that extent 2. What about it is so alluring/attractive. I struggle with my kinks because most of my partners haven't shared them, and thus I don't know how they'd react to them until it's been said. This has been exacerbated with vore as most hadn't even heard of it, or only had a partial, meme-based understanding. Would things be easier if I was vanilla? Maybe, probably not, I know enough vanilla guys who've had serious relationship trouble because they don't have the mental flexibility to adapt to their partners in the bedroom. To try and force yourself into something you're not is inviting disaster. I've taken the time to try and understand my own psychology, my tics, biased, flaws that I am prone to, so I can plan my approach to life in a way that works with them, for all aspects. It's hard work and time consuming, but no genuine solution is ever quick and easy, and I cannot reccomend any approach that doesn't involve massive amounts of self reflection. Breaking down the elements behind my vore kink, I know it comes from 1. My personal trauma with food (my diet is incredibly restricted, so anything I would be willing to eat carries an inherent weight of trust/safety) 2. My autistic biases towards physical contact and tactile stimming ( I am extremely aware that physical contact can be unsettling for people, so only those with whom there is an established safety can be touched, but I am also a very tactile person, my hands are rarely idle and I keep objects just for their texture. When I am with a partner, I want to touch them in as total and thorough a manner as I can, to try and maximize our connection and express how strongly I feel for them, so this impulse to try and completely envelop someone Venn diagrams with vore) 3. My preference for clear dynamics. When someone is openly submissive or dominant it is much easier for me to gauge how they want things to go, reducing the anxiety of me misreading and misstepping socially. I like masochistic women, not because I'm a sadist, but because they provide a clear role for me to play for them to make them happy. With the knowledge I now have, I've been able to talk to people about my kinks in a proper and civil manner, still somewhat embarrassed, but without that same degree of fear and self-loathing. I find where my preferences line up with my partner's and incorporate them in a way that I can enjoy my own little irregularities while still facilitating theirs, and my relationships have been much happier for it. I realize this is a sexually inclined 4chan extension so most people won't bother reading most is any of this and will probably just call me a slur and move on, but for the oddballs who decided to act like repenting monks in the same place, I would hope you'd at least consider some of what I am suggesting, anecdotal though much of it may be

I think my issues mentally with this fetish are the mental split I have in regards to more casual vore. Most of the time it's fine, I'm like "Hey, this is fucked up but it's fantasy, whatever". But when it comes to some artists work (In this case it's namely Phex that elicits this reaction, but no hate to the guy) my body gets split between "Holy shit not even acknowledging them as a person is so fucking hot" and "So the gimmick is there's a hidden society of people that will kill you because you're just food to them. That is terrifying". I think it stems from my irl fears about people that legitimately would kill people just because they felt like it, 0 caring for others. That same feeling being reflected in the same art that gives me an erection creates this weird fear/self-hate/arousal loop that leaves me feeling shitty. It's extra frustrating when I can think about it logically and be like "It's someone's fantasy world, there is no reason to be obsessing about that", which is true, but just recognizing that as true doesn't make the shitty feeling leave. So the obvious answer is to just stop interacting with that kind of artwork, I know. But when I'm in the mindset of looking for something to jerk off to and I see that type of art, that logical part is silenced, and all that's left is the extremely aroused part. It's only after that the flood of disgust and anger comes in. I don't know, man. No one here gives a shit but I wanted to vent.

Also side note from my last post, but it's fucking weird how I've had these kinda thoughts since I was in kindergarten. I've gotten turned on by big stomachs and women eating people for over half my life, despite barely being into my 20s. I remember almost asking my parents what Vore was when I was like 14 cause I wasn't sure. Holy shit am I glad my brain kicked in and I didn't do that.

>>79914 It's not a fetish guys! It's just funny cartoon slapstick! Keep it PG-13 guys!!! Stop calling my FETISH art a FETISH!!!!

>>79869 The fact that you care so much about what other people think about your private life and thoughts is the real joke. Peak zoomer slave mentality

this thread is so fucking gay lol jerk off to vore and then move on with your life, it's not a serious issue or anything like you make it out to be unless it's related to an actual porn addiction, in which case that's not the fetishes fault thats just you.

>>81644 Holy FUCK Stop responding to this thread. I'm tired of seeing this shit getting bumped.

>>79787 I love vore. I think I was born with the only purpose to make vore art and share it with the world. I also think that it's a fetish that can easily erode your sanity. The brutality, the instrumentalization, the dehumanization, the power plays and sadism, the tortures, etc. Not even accounting for the fact that it's goofy, it's silly, it's ugly, it's grottesque, it's weird, and most of all it's rare and niche. It's not a good fetish at all, it's a jumble of primal desires for weirdo deviants that are very likely to find themselves alone without anyone to share their fantasies with beside other weirdos that are extremely likely to be terrible or disgusting people in general. It's an isolating sexual desire. I agree with this anon >>79842 Alas, vore can be a beautiful fetish as well. Merging with someone else, getting teased about it, knowing about their hunger for you and how they want to consume every part of you after getting a taste, you struggling, melting and then maybe getting your chance of consuming them back... it's a metaphor for something deeply romantic and intimate. But still, taken at face value it's a terrible fetish. Also just because it's a fantasy, that doesn't mean that in like a millennia it won't be a reality. Cars didn't exist up until very recently, if you'd go back to the Stone Age, you'd get people really scared and worried just at the thought (if you could explain what cars are to them). So in that sense, OP is worried about the possible futures and how such a demonic and evil fetish might corrupt parts of humanity if it ever manages to become real, so shrugging it off as just a fetish is a bit insensitive and irresponsible. I hope that was enough to feed your curiosity.

Mfs forget that endosoma exist too

>>65669 Bro, wtf? I just want to see girls getting fatter, burping, farting and getting completely nude, while they cum and milk of pleasure for killing someone.

>>81661 You aren't necessarily wrong, but an addiction is an addiction. Sure, loli isn't real kids, and porn isn't prostitution, but people still whore out their pen and paper or computer art program to make it, body or not. We can go over the complexities, nuances, and various philosophical issues involved, and I like doing that, but we gotta agree, community or not, that 100% this is not an addiction. Let's not kid ourselves like the drug addicts who say they're perfectly fine; there is something wrong with us, and I don't like that I get stuck. Honest to God, this page helps me. It makes me feel less alone than the fetish community does around vore, and I'm glad anytime someone posts here. It's healing. It matters. You being willing to acknowledge the bad matters. I don't know you, random anon, but your words matter to me more than any fap could.

>>81644 >>81657 You ever wonder if your knee-jerk dismissal is because your mind KNOWS something is wrong? And doesn’t want to acknowledge and process it. Ngl everyone who likes vore has been absolutely been traumatized by something. There’s nothing wrong with a fetish even vore but we are all fucked up by liking it (its a fact) and we should not tear down dicusssion about the damaging aspects of the fetish just because the feelings are too difficult to you. Some people can benefit from an open discussion.

>>82321 You aren't alone, and neither am I. Personally, I don't even think it's trauma. I would argue it's a cumpulsion created by just how awful my generation is. The parents of my generation treated us like purse puppies. We existed for their aggrandizement, and when we were inconvenient for such, our own parents turned on us. Of all the people I've seen with terrible fetishes, every single one was either sexually abused, emotionally abused, or their have people complicite in the way they behave. It always comes from someone with power over their life, who sees them as a burden. We are betrayed by the world. We are lambs tainted by the poxes of others, cast aside because we refuse to fall to such lowly levels, and yet, it ironically traps us in a different kind of sin. We take on all the hurt because we don't want to do it to others. I believe we engage in this psychopathic porn content because on some level, we want others to suffer for what happened to us, but are unwilling to cause another the same pain. It's comparable to how some of the molested either become child molesters or do everything to fuck up child molesters. A line is drawn in the soul.

>>82406 Just jack off to vore porn dude, shut the fuck up

>>82440 Sure is neat how you can just ignore a board you don't like huh

>>82440 Come on man, tell us how you really feel. You cannot be a happy person. How many years have you been into this? How many oppourtunities did you lose or ruin because of your fetish? We're all fucked up on the same level so the least you can do is be honest with yourself.

>>65669 >We >Struggling >Individualization What the fuck are you on about? Just jack off and move on with your day like a normal person. If you are defined, positively or negatively, by your wank material - then you are a broken fucking individual.

Who's eating you in the afterlife?

>>83290 In a lack of Anna, then whoever that delicious brown demon girl on the bottom is. I love tall, dark, and hungry girls.

>>83286 That is so backwards. You guys keep saying the same stupid bullshit every time. I'm convinced you don't have any fucking principles or means to a positive end. You believe you do because you've found a pretty decent coping mechanism. Shut the fuck up. "Just jack off and move on wtf" "Its not a big deal". We're not worried about you. We have our own concerns about our fucked up sexuality. Keep the weak shit to yourself. And this is not about vore being a minor kink this is about vore being the only thing that gets you off. A real fucking issue for me.

>>83315 Cry more about it, see what that changes.

>>82406 >Personally, I don't even think it's trauma. I would argue it's a cumpulsion created by just how awful my generation is. The parents of my generation treated us like purse puppies. We existed for their aggrandizement, and when we were inconvenient for such, our own parents turned on us. >Muh parents made me this way Wow, that's a throwback to the late 90's/early 00's. But I would advise you to disillusion yourself of this idea, or at least not project it too hard onto others if you experienced it yourself. Vore existed long before your generation. It existed before the internet. The problem with newer generations is that they often compulsively seek to find validation in others, and with vore being such a despised fetish, that makes it difficult for them to comes to terms with. For older generations, many of us grew up much more isolated - even in big cities - thinking we were the only ones who had this fucked up fetish. That we were somehow uniquely broken and alone, but of course we weren't, and we eventually found or forged communities in the early internet to talk about it and share content. So it's little surprise that older generations are typically better at compartmentalizing our fetish. That we can maintain a barrier between the inner self, and the outer self we present to the world, and are able to make peace with it in time. As for me, I had no such trauma. I had, and still have, a great and loving family who remain close. If anybody was abusive, it was my peers in my early years of school who I often didn't get along with which sent me shrinking away to a place of safety. But that is a very common circumstance which doesn't appear to be a trigger for the vore fetish, else it would be much more prevalent than it is. For me, it was always more of a "return to the womb" - a place of warmth, safety, and acceptance. The knowing that you are desired by somebody in your entirety, body and soul, even if only as something as base as being food. I am more of a submissive personality type, but there are plenty of others who are dominant personalities which enjoy hard vore as a primal power fantasy, or enjoy soft vore as an inversion of their personality types which puts them into a novel state of mind which excites them. I've talked to enough of them over the years to know that they also often couldn't point to any sort of trauma inflicted upon them by someone in a position of power and authority. It's not a new theory you have here. Being abused as a child can lead to a lot of different aberrant behavior, including I suppose vore, but I don't think that's the primary or universal factor in decoding vore in specific. I think there are a LOT of different roads in life and different personalities that somehow find themselves intersecting, and it's unclear why exactly that is - and no guarantee that it could be reversed or prevented if discovered. Your best bet is to just do what the older generations did... find a way to deal with it. Our brains don't come with an owners manual and psychology is a joke, so at the end of the day, there really is nobody out there to help you in this. Don't look outside of yourself. Nobody's validation is going to assuage your troubled mind in any real or meaningful sense. Only you can come to peace with yourself.

>>83341 Nothing you're saying is at odds with what I've said, and the way you describe yourself is mostly the same as myself. I was not traumatized, but smothered and prevented from doing what I needed to do for the purpose of personal growth. Every generation has a sin put upon it from the generation before. They pass the buck. My generation was basically given a sort of Pavlovian training to give in to whatever whims pop into your mind. I'm in my 30s; the Supersize generation where we wanted more of everything, when food was cheap due to supply side economics from Reagan but the housing market was being buttfucked by Clinton, We found it too expensive to leave, but too cheap to consume. I live at the metaphorical intersection of autism and more autism. In every case I've seen of mentally fucked up people of those types, the parents are either actively helping the worst happen, or preventing an alternative good from happening. Have you seen how many furries are enabled to do the fucked up shit they do? Hell, their parents pay for them do that shit, The same happens for other fetishes. We're a culture of lax morals. We live in an era where kids shouldn't be on cell phone, and parents are enabling that problem. Mark my words the next generation of problems will be born from that bullshit. We all know it, and we all fear it. The next generation was functionally taught how to not learn and ignore knowledge.

>>83400 We cannot expect the next generation to change anything. They will become feeble-minded, ai-addicted drones. Truly the last generation of humanity with any semblance of a world existing out of the digital space. But it will not be theirs for long, their children will be more of the same, the techniques used for brainwashing only perfecting as algorithms scale in learning and speed. Humans will engineer other humans. The revolution against technology and techno-feudalism must come from Gen Z.. perhaps this signifiance is in the name itself.

>>83419 I fully agree with you. The buck has to stop here.

Fingers crossed that this time I try to quit I can remain off this for longer. Weening myself off ain't easy.

>>65669 I'unno what you're on about, but the only way I see myself getting through things any more is through a snake's digestive tract. I'm forever waiting. Yeah, it's DDS. Still disposabledogstud on gmail if anyone gives a fuck. I'm so fucking tired dude. Not even of the lack of snake for those who know my history. It's just, it's every day with this shit. People are very, very down and they keep jacking up everything, especially the groceries and power bills. Unsustainable. The financial pressures on the typical American feel pushed to a breaking point. And that's just one tiny piece of all the problems with what's going on in the world right now.

>>85382 For what it's worth, I'm tired too, and yeah the financial pressures are fucked. Most people can't even find work. The parents of my generation thoroughly fucked up the system and then put it into the hands of Disney adults. We live in an era where artists can make thousands of dollars on painting a single porn piece, but can't find decent work teaming up because everyone has to side with [insert literally any political/ideological affiliation here].