/vyt/ - What do I do when I'm gachikoi for an indie vtuber? She's not small in terms of audience, but it's just small enough to where the community still feels personal. I swore I would be normal about her and it went well for months, but now I genuinely caught fe

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Anonymous 07/17/2025 (Thu) 20:24:19 Id: 722852 No. 570049

What do I do when I'm gachikoi for an indie vtuber? She's not small in terms of audience, but it's just small enough to where the community still feels personal. I swore I would be normal about her and it went well for months, but now I genuinely caught feelings. It doesn't help that we've met in person. Now I find I get jealous when other chatters get more attention, even though it's just how it's always worked. I love her but it sucks in a way, you know?

Anonymous 07/17/2025 (Thu) 21:38:44 Id: 597247 No. 570220

You have three choices: grit your teeth and endure; walk away; try to become her boyfriend. Pick wisely...

Anonymous 07/18/2025 (Fri) 01:58:52 Id: 905e5f No. 571190

>>570049 Just win. That's all you gotta do, win her over everyone else

Anonymous 07/18/2025 (Fri) 05:08:04 Id: f3774d No. 571705

>>570049 love from afar, dont ruin it by getting too deep though, distance if you think you are catching too many feels

Anonymous 08/02/2025 (Sat) 22:32:06 Id: 5d0646 No. 632295

>>570049 If she ever seeks you out with special intent to contact you specifically, your feelings are justified and you can maintain them in pursuit of her (discreetly). If not, however--if she shows no sign of remembering you exist as an individual--then you're merely on the path to becoming the very parasocially infatuated fan every female streamer, including this one, fears. In that case, you should dispel those feelings and simply enjoy her videos as the nondescript audience member you are to her. Don't disgrace yourself by giving her more than she gives you; she will only contemn your high regard of her as a potentially dangerous nuisance. If you cannot dispel those feelings, walk away. You'll lose nothing and--believe me--she'll be none the wiser. You have to be honest with yourself about all this, and remember that feelings don't mean much in the grand scheme of reality.

Anonymous 08/03/2025 (Sun) 18:10:42 Id: fbbb72 No. 635321

>>570049 There are no good choices. Unless you end up dating her you will be thinking back at it "what if I had done X". Good luck, kid.

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