Not at all. Guys who hate women are fools that blame their frustrations, deep sadness, and feelings of inadequacy on a mysterious and distant "other" instead of looking inward and bettering themselves. Women are human beings like us, who share the same struggles as we do and have the same experiences. We are not different. They are not some mythical creatures that men will never understand.
A relationship isn't going to cure your depression, or fix your lack of confidence, or snap you out of your self-hatred. You have to do that yourself, and a relationship will simply let your share the love you already nurtured within with someone you find special.
Now, that said, the current dating scene really sucks and it is easy to see why so many guys give up their hopes and turn to hatred. Hatred is an easy answer to a complex problem.
I'm a bisexual dude. I've had plenty of enounters with guys where I get my feet worshipped and get the living daylights tickle tortured out of me. Bringing up your kinks and acting on them is not an insurmountable challenge. It's a matter of being mature and not coming off as a massive creep. Of knowing how to discuss these sexual topics as an adult instead of a basement-dweller that doesn't understand human interaction.
Now I'm interested in getting to know some women on the context of dating, and am looking to potentially get in a relationship if I meet the right person. I have absolutely no difficulties using grindr and setting up a playdate with a guy in like 5 minutes. So I thought matching with gals would be no problem.
Nope.
I have been swiping on bumbl and tinder for weeks without getting a single match. It's crazy, and a past version of myself would have stared at this empty wasteland and despaired. I would have thought I'm not desirable at all, I'll never find a partner, I'm worth nothing, I'm ugly and can't compete with the chads that get all the girls, etc etc.
But none of that is true. Those are simple answers to a complex situation, and I know there's someone out there for me that I just have to keep searching for. My self worth is not attached to some app, and when it happens it will happen. I love myself, I know who I am, and I'm living my life to the best that I can make it. If I match with someone and it works out, perfect! If it takes longer, then that's also good! Because at the end of the day, I have my loved ones, my friends, and myself to count upon. There is meaning in my life beyond the pursuit of a relationship.
I think it's also helped me massively that my best friend is a woman that has helped me understand the female perspective on all of this, and I'm not ashamed to admit that she's kept me from falling into the incel hole. To any guy that is struggling and reading this, I recommend making friends with a gal. Don't try and date her. Don't think with your dick. Make a meaningful connection that will broaden your perspective and help you understand this chaotic world we live in.
To wrap up these ramblings, I'm gonna finish with this.
It's not hopeless. Find happiness and fulfillment within. Explore your interests, develop hobbies, assign the meaning that you want to assign to your life. Then you will be (at least) a little happier, a little healthier mentally, and things will fall into place. Avoid Andrew Tate, avoid the manosphere, avoid all these charlatans and mind poisoners that offer you hatred as a simple answer to a complex topic.