>>996420
i understand that we are all socially autistic here, and i don't know your family life or anyone else's, but the "full clapback" is the part that is pathetic
if you are in a position where you genuinely believe triggering people out of asking questions you're tired of answering is the best course of action then why don't you actually just cut them off, or tell them in more harsh language to essentially fuck off
both of those options will have the same social effect without the cowardice of dancing around your feelings in hopes that the other will "intuit" that you don't want to talk to them
when i was old enough to stop being forced into family gatherings, i stopped talking to the relatives i dislike
when my parents ask about grandchildren, i tell them i don't want children, because i don't
if they want to bitch and moan about it they can but i'm not going to, in your words, "throw responsibility back onto them" when it is, in fact, not their responsibility
normally i would not care about this kind of conversation, i don't care how people live their own lives, but your means of dodging slightly-uncomfortable questions is so genuinely, deeply, gut-wrenchingly pathetic i cannot stand it, especially when you recommend it to others under the belief that this is somehow a mature way to handle adult relationships
mercy modiste