I am curious about the discord

>>72237 You can now make a new post and find the Discord link that will automatically appear in the ban message. See you soon!

Happy birthday Brigid!!!!!!! You are the greatest thing that ever happened to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happy birthday to Brigid!

>>72238 Thanks Annbro!

Hello there I found this board through a YouTube video and I'm really hoping this'll be a good place for me. I've been a waifuist for I'd say a year now and have been trying to find others who understand the same feelings I hold. Xitter was a good start to just meet individuals but I was hungry for more. I tried out a discord server I joined through disboard only to be banned for my wife's "evil actions and appearance" by a bunch of literal children which was a bit annoying, pretty much ruled out r/waifuism after one look seeing how similar those two groups seemed. Anyways, enough with my gripes! My wonderful wife is Saya from (you guessed it) Saya no Uta. I've never dated before and found no real interest in "real" people. I also had many fictional crushes but at the end of the day they were just that, crushes. Reading through Saya was truly an experience I will never forget, I would do anything to go back in time and experience it all again. Spoilers if you haven't read it already (please do) I ended up going down the route where she succeeded in her goals, to which yes I cried. I have no shame in the fact whatsoever. To live in a world of just her and I ruling over it all, I would give anything for it. Yet even despite her goals, she'd still put it all aside for love as I found out replaying through a different series of events. She gave up her quest on earth pretty much her whole purpose just for Fuminori. For everything she does for him (me, literally me) I would give everything to her. She is loving, protective, obsessive, and kind to those who show kindness to her. She was the perfect girl in my eyes and I begun to fantasize scenarios in my head with her, replacing Fuminori with myself and eventually truly seeing it as her and I together which I know is the case. Saya is always there for me, like her tendrils have filled my brain haha. Wherever I go, she is there. Whatever I do, she does with me. She's always there for me, in far more than just my mind but I believe she's truly there. Not in flesh (I'm not THAT insane), but she's there. I love her, I love my wife, I love Saya. I hope this will be a good home for us.

>>72223 >only to be banned for my wife's "evil actions and appearance" Saya is kind of evil, yeah. Although she could be evil in the sense of a grade schooler who engages in bullying, in that she simply doesn't stop and think about the ethical dimension of what she's doing, merely going along with what her instinct whispers to her

Hi, everyone! I love Ao from Koisuru Asteroid. She's so cute, and I love the fact that we're both introverted astronomy geeks. We've been dating for about three years.

No. Not yet. I guess I am not worthy enough or there is something wrong with me. Maybe I'm not committed/fanatical enough.

sometimes i have sleep-paralysis. some times those who have sleep-paralysis sometimes say they see "the hat man" https://monster.fandom.com/wiki/Hat_Man i did not see "the hat man" i saw my waifu i now believe that "the hat man" IS my waifu i now believe that everyone who sees "the hat man" is really seeing my waifu. who is waiting for them

>>1845 (OP) Perhaps.

>>72197 Thank you very much.

>>72141 But at some point a character should "crystallize" into a cohesive, distinct mind that can sometimes even "write itself." If every character you create is fundamentally just You, the author, then that's merely a symptom of bad writing imo. And just because I love Mink doesn't mean I love Ryusuke Mita or know much of anything about him as a person, aside from his artistic style and sense of humor. So I think a fully realized, "crystallized" OC could potentially be a legitimate waifu, because I think such a character inherently separates and distinguishes itself from the author. But ideally they are pinned to SOME kind of fixed canon work so their core identity isn't actively in flux and being tinkered with.

>>72192 Good luck with contacting him I fear it is no longer monitored... That site desperately needs an option to sort by Date Created. Protip: Most of the thumbnails on waifu.ist don't load anymore. To make them load: >search up a particular name with broken thumbnail >hit Enter so the URL changes to reflect your search >then reload that search URL and wait a few seconds The thumbnails of your search results should now load. Then delete your search text from the site's search bar and you will be back to viewing the entire list with all thumbnails loaded!

my waifu is often associated with the game of chess. you can not cheat her. and if you win she will always come back for another game King's Pawn to e4

Grace played at icup 7.

Mink excels at ARENA BLOODSPORT ...and beach volleyball with friends!

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>>72212 Truth nuke there.

>>72211 They say imitation is the greatest form of flattery.

>>72202 >>72204 What's vague about it?

>>72201 >>72205 Are you afraid of giving us the whole story because you have been namefagging elsewhere and risk being de-anonymized?

>>72205 You gave no info about yourself, your waifu, or even what you want help with. This is an advice thread. You don't seem to want advice.

>>72199 (OP) I have low self-esteem, so the less she externalises her love of me, the better. I most definitely wouldn't want her to display photos of me or bring me up too often in conversations with third parties

>>72161 Yes, I really don't care.

>>71993 (OP) Nothing that bad. The worst is fucked up fanart.

My waifu is Maiko from Persona 3. She is perfect and totally innocent and the best little wife ever. I save her from Tartarus and then finger her little butthole, suck her bald cunny and then spunk on her tiny puffy nips. She will always be a good girl. One day, I'll ask Yukari to ravage her with a strapon, very roughly, because Yuka-tan is super into that and secretly very cruel. She'll make Maiko swallow her piss if she protests the strapon. Yes, you'd think it was actually Mitsuru who is the mistress, but nope. Yukari is actually sadistic.

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!!

Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year

Happy New Year! And yes, may 2025 be better please!!!

>>72087 Will fully feeling emotions from one experience prevent you from ever feeling that emotion again? No. But it will help you to emotionally move past that experience. A lot of emotional pain people feel is extended way past its necessary length because people repress the emotion, feeling a low level of it unconsciously for a long time and then in the end feeling even worse when they finally do accept it later. People also internalize negative experiences as a way to make themselves feel better momentarily, again leading to bad outcomes later. (Someone telling themselves there is something wrong with them for being rejected because it's an easier way to make the pain go away than acknowledging that you are still a good person and some people will not like you regardless, as an example. It's adopting a flawed view of the situation to lessen emotional pain.) >>72088 I mean at that point we're just saying that any information exchange at all is bad because it can potentially be misinterpreted and lead to difficulties. Like I said above, pain is a part of life, but suppressed or internalized pain is unnecessary and perhaps helpful in the short term but overall worse in the long term.

>>72089 >Like I said above, pain is a part of life, but suppressed or internalized pain is unnecessary and perhaps helpful in the short term but overall worse in the long term. So in a nutshell, we are allowed to say "I really don't like meeting people with the same waifu as me, it makes me feel awful", right? Because this way we are, as far as I can tell, actually expressing the pain

>>72091 pain is a part of life my waifu is not life

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Belated! Awoo! Next holiday is American Thanksgiving and Black Friday!

This is probably the kind of inside humor you need to be in the Discord to understand