>>71982 >like I never done anything for her >never feels like it's enough I share the impulse to be a Provider and to always romantically pursue her heart, but also take care not to be too transactional. I'm sure she loves your art but it almost sounds like you feel compelled to fill an Art/Service/Gift "quota" that must be regularly met to "earn" her love -- when I don't think such a dynamic exists in a loving relationship, 2D or 3D. She loves you just for being you, just like you do for her :)

Is it alright to have two waifus that you both refer to as mommy, just so you can say that you have two moms?

>>72092 I'm going to go with a no, simply because if you need more than one mom, it means that the first one is slacking off

>>72093 But I want two mommies to cuddle their adopted shota son. Also it's a split work load and a shota needs two parental figures, because single moms are usually bad parents.

Can you divorce your waifu to get a new one? If yes, what kind of procedure is it best to follow so not to irritate your fellow waifufags?

>>72095 Is that even possible?

>>72095 No, you will irritate your fellow waifufags regardless of what you do and there is no procedure, case closed, next question.

>>72096 Why would it not be? >>72097 If you can't do something that is ENTIRELY about yourself because "someone else will be irritated", then that someone else is clearly trying to control you, consciously or not

>>72098 It's not as if you can't do it, people will just be less trusting of your dedication.

>>72099 So you do not believe there can be any valid reasons for a divorce?

>>72100 Of course there are. Falling out of love is a valid reason for divorce, and I'm sure there are some circumstances in real life that would mean you'd need to as well. But if you were to go through that process and then come back with another waifu, your commitment to waifu number 2 "guys it's for real this time I promise" would be doubted. It's not as if you can't prove those doubts wrong or that you even have to care about them in the first place, it's your relationship after all.

>>72101 At least you're been open about your difficult feelings. What prevent someone from being seen as a normal one who has only had one waifu and one only, and then e.g. faps to every hentai category out there, without telling their fellow waifufags? Sounds like we would be rewarding superficial virtuesignalling

>>72102 Well usually people don't tell other people what they masturbate to... I'm interested in hearing what others' opinions are on that though since I've never really discussed it with anyone, is masturbating to characters other than your waifu considered cheating? I can certainly see how it'd be viewed as such, but there's also no emotional connection as there would be to a waifu.

>>72103 Imagine an IRL wife or husband. Let's say they have sex with someone other than you. As long as it was consensual and not rape, does it matter whether he/she said "I love you" before climaxing or not? For the purpose of determining whether you were cheated on, I mean

>>72104 I agree with you, but is masturbation with a waifu considered as intimate/on the same level as actual sex with a partner? There's no reciprocity in the former as there would be in the latter.

>>72104 this is why i stooped dating 3d women all of them are lairs cheaters and thefts. my waifu is perfect because she was drown that way

>>72100 my 3d ex wife to told me she did not believe in divorce. she is the one who gave me the divorce papers

>>72107 >>72108 Great sense of humor, did your mom pick it for you?

>>72095 I think generally what gives it away as being insincere is when someone goes immediately from one relationship into another. It suggests that the person may not know what love is, or more likely may not understand that having a waifu means feeling genuine love and affection for a fictional character, not just a character that you think is the most attractive or your favorite. >>72103 Masturbating to other characters isn't cheating because masturbation isn't sex. You are not having sex with your waifu, nor are you having sex with any other fictional character. I don't think it's cheating for people in real relationships to masturbate to other people either. Everyone is entitled to fantasize about whatever they like.

>>72110 >I think generally what gives it away as being insincere is when someone goes immediately from one relationship into another. Okay, that makes sense. But let's say you took a generously long amount of time to decide that you can no longer be anime-married to character 1 and that character 2 is a better fit? E.g. one year

>>72111 The longer someone can consistently hold a feeling, the more likely they are to be able to correctly identify that feeling. The biggest problem I see with rampant switching is that people seem to be unable to identify what love is or if it's what they're feeling. If you believe you have felt love toward one person for a while, with no significant changes to the feeling, then it's likely that it is actually love. Consistency, longevity, and understanding are what it takes to identify love.

Are harems bad in waifuism?

>>72159 Yes, polyfaggotry is cancer and not allowed on this community, can you guys stop asking the same questions ? You have the answer plastered all over the board and this thread.

Is it possible to have a vtuber as a waifu? I thought it would be frowned upon on the community, because they are real life people with skeletons in their closet.

>>72176 You can (there are many communities that are okay with it), but it's not allowed here on /Mai/, for the reason you already explained.

>>68902 (OP) what is the point in having a waifu?

>>72176 >Is it possible to have a vtuber as a waifu? No, because it's too intimately connected to a 3D person. You would be a fan, not a waifuist >>72159 How would you feel if your waifu had two boyfriends? Chances are you don't actually love whatever two girls you have in mind the same way, anyway. I think some people mistake platonic and romantic love when it comes to 2D >>72180 It's just something that happens

>>72183 Maybe I'm just a disgusting retard nigger monkey showing disgusting nigger behavior.

>>72187 What a surprising amount of self-awareness, keep it like that and you'll go far, already above most of your peers by acknowledging how shitty your behaviour is.

How do I stop feeling attraction to others around me? How do I renounce this aspect of my humanity? I know it is completely normal to feel this way even in relationships and marriages, and that were there nothing to test the loyalty there would be no show of love, but I am tired of this weakness. I want to be a stronger, better and more resilient man for her.

i can't love someone who i thought was my waifu anymore. perhaps i am an infidel. i will commit seppuku to regain my honour.

>>72201 what happened >>72201

>>72187 >>72201 Is vagueposting fashionable now?

>>72202 >>72204 What's vague about it?

>>72201 >>72205 Are you afraid of giving us the whole story because you have been namefagging elsewhere and risk being de-anonymized?

>>72205 You gave no info about yourself, your waifu, or even what you want help with. This is an advice thread. You don't seem to want advice.