I keep thinking I've posted in this thread and then remember I haven't. I'll share my situation though it's not very exciting
>Dated gf 3 years before telling her I like to imagine I'm a little boy and she's my mommy
>Took it well, we got married shortly after
>For our first Valentine's Day married, she planned to get me a pacifier
>When that lead her to find ABDL stuff it caused her to get pretty freaked out
>I calmed her down and offered to talk to her about it when she's ready
>We never did, to this day she knows I like diapers but we don't talk about it
>She did warm up though and bought me more pacifiers, put me in a onesie that I bought, has talked about buying me a nipple bottle (this has never happened though and I am kind of hopeful then disappointed every Christmas/birthday).
>About half the time when we're in bed she'll "baby" me, playing along with roleplaying like talking about bedtime, nursing, finding a babysitter, singing lullabies, spankings for "acting too grown up", etc.
Basically she's happy to play out age regression fantasies with me, but diapers are too far. I am thankful for what I have though, I'm not going to push things. I do have a stash of diapers that she hasn't found, but it's not super concealed, just out of sight. If she ever confronted me about it I would honestly tell her it wasn't meant to be secret, just kept out of her view in respect for her dislike of them. Since I don't use them very often, it's not a big deal.