I’m very lucky, me and my girlfriend are both switches. So basically we’re there for each other whatever comes up. Although, we’ve agreed that changing each other when it comes to messes at least, that’s where we draw the line, too embarrassing for either of us.

>>11004 My wife usually won't get involved though she's cool with me wearing diapers and AB clothes routinely. The few times she has been involved were pretty intense though. - She'll use the wand on me while she rides it - She'll 'reward' me by diapering me after sex every once in a blue moon - She even wore a diaper with me, and we both used the wand together - She almost always lets me 'breastfeed'

my fiance (gf of one year at the time) demanded i tell her my deepest darkest secret at the end of our first year of dating(we were drunk at a bar). i told her i had a diaper fetish. she was interested in trying it out. (we tried it out together a few times, she was for it) fast forward 2 years and we moved to austin, tx after living together for a year. one night (first night of the snowpocolypse) and we dosed some molly and got into 'fluffs' as we call them. well this particular night we decided to get extra wild and i let her do whatever she wanted. so she grabbed her butt plug and started using it on me. well, i guess i got excited cuz my ass sucked that fucker right in and poof, it was gone. she spends the better part of an hour digging around in there trying to find it. i supposed normally ida been freaked out, but the molly and butt stuff had me quivering in ecstasy. after she gave up because we couldnt get it out i said "hey, i have an idea....you have to give me an enema." up until that night, i never explained to her that i loved messing the most. so she loaded me up and shortly thereafter the flood gates opened and out came the plug and all. at that point she became a little less enamored in the whole ordeal and left me to tidy up on my own. after cleaning up and getting changed we went back to cuddling and watching a movie together. she felt absolutely horrible for slipping and getting the plug stuck. i felt a sense of relief that i got to express my darkest side and it didnt end horribly. that was almost 2 years ago. these days shes not into messing and taking it that far, but she does enjoy an occasional bit of diaper play. she wants to engage more in role plays but i am a total novice to that. since that night in austin, she's agreed to marry me, knowing full well my fetish. sometimes it creates some frustration (if shes working a night shift and comes home to me passed out a mess on the floor and the house stinks....but hey, who wouldnt?). she wants to engage in the role play aspect of this world and is down for wetting/diaper sex. i am a total novice at the whole roleplay concept and it makes me feel uncomfortable, so i mostly prefer to see how big/swoll/messy i can make my fluff (mostly in private on my own). currently i'm considering ways for us to meet in the middle. she enjoys being a sub primarily with the occasional lust for total domination. unfortunately ive been too uncomfortable/amateur with sharing/exploring kinks and fetishes to properly engage with her on the levels that she wants. we are currently exploring different ways to meet each other in the middle. anyway....thats my first time sharing this account with anyone but her. it feels rather liberating. go easy on me. im new here.....if you do contribute ideas and assistance....there may even be original content headed your way.

>>11004 Been with my girl for 10 years told her I was into diapers in the first year we dated. Since then I've got her to become quite the perfect diaper girl. When we go out drinking and stuff she'll almost always wear a diaper with me since she has a weak bladder and wets herself easily. Only got her to mess them a few times, she's not a huge fan of it but sees that I like it and will do it for me on occasion. She picked it up pretty well from the start and was never embarrassed about wearing in public. Earlier this year we went on vacation to the beach me and her wore the whole week on vacation. She did her first public mess at the aquarium while we were there. Have a ton of stories from all the diaper fun we've got into over the years. One of my favorites is when she had her first public leaking accident. >at the bar drinking with her friends from work >she opted to wear a goodnite even after I warned her of leaks especially with the how much she pees when drinking >we are standing out on the patio >as we are talking I see a huge wet spot go down her leg >not just a small spot either it's all the way down her leg and starts dripping from her crotch >she runs to the bathroom and some of her friends follow her to help >after a bit her friend comes out and asks me to go get her jacket out of the car to help cover the wet spot >I go get the hoddie out and put a goodnite in the pocket of it for her to change into >her and her friends come out and I pay the tab and we head to the car >she's still drunk so not to embarrassed and her friends were cool about it >she tells me on the ride home her friend went into the stall with her and saw her soaked goodnite >she was cool enough not to mention it to her other friends and snuck it out and threw it away discreetly for her Then on the ride home we stopped and got mcnuggets and she wet again and leaked all over my car seats. After that she quit wearing goodnites and switched to real diapers.

>>11004 nope, I've been unloved my whole life

Me and the wife are both Littles. I'm way better at switching than her, at least I think so, so usually I baby her a couple of times, or encourage us to get into little space and then she uses my new moves back on me when she decides to give me a turn. That works out though as my caregiver moves are based on my own fantasies. She's a good and open lover, just embarrassed by her little side despite years of marriage and us sharing the same kink. Obviously, she's diapered me and changed me, and I have for her. Sometimes we'll be playing a game or something and I'll get too into it and wait too long and pee my pants, and she'll clean me up but put me into diapers until I'm ready to be a big boy, She's used a wand on me and that's pretty cool. What I'd like is for her to go "Ara ara" on me, push me in a bed, untape my wet diaper or take off my wet pants, stroke my cock a bit, tease me a little, then straddle and fuck me while I'm in full-on little mode. However, I can tell it would be too heavy for her for me to do that to her when she's in little mode, so I haven't figured out how to convey what I want without ruining it or making it awkwar for her, which I won't do. We get it on when we're both in little mode, or when neither is, but we've never fucked as caregiver/little, though she's used the wand like that on occasion. I'm sure we'll work up to it eventually. My complaints must seem like bullshit to most others though, we've got an awesome relationship to be sure and I'm fully satisfied, just can't help considering perfection. She doesn't do messing, and I only get a weird compulsion to mess like once every 4 months when the house is empty and usually end up with massive post-fap regret. I'm not sure I'd want to go there anyway as it looks hot in porn but the smell of someone else's poop in person might be too much.

>>11004 I told my girlfriend (now wife) about 8 years ago. It started with her being the one doing the wearing. She didn’t particular enjoy it but did like some aspects of being treated like a little. This went on for about 6 more years with her indulging my fantasies solely out of her love for me. Eventually a day came where I asked if she would prefer if the roles were reversed. Honestly I wasn’t sure if I’d like it or not but was willing to try anything if she’d be more engaged and comfortable. So we tried it and things are better than ever. It took some time to figure out the right dynamic for us (how often, what we do while I’m diapered, where and when to wear, etc). Now, she almost always has me diapered. In fact, I can’t remember a week in the last 2 years where there’s even been two consecutive days where I wasn’t diapered. What eventually helped was a book I found that explained everything really well.

I've had 4 relationships and all of them involved some level of diaper play. My ex was honestly a perfect diaper girl for the first 3 years until she checked out of the relationship and stopped putting any effort in. One of my favorite stories from that relationship though, was definitely giving her a suppository one night when we were really drunk. She had on Tykables Puppers that were already pretty soaked so when she came out of the bathroom after her explosion I couldn't resist being all over that padded ass. I bounced her on my knee while using a wand on her and eventually when I layed her down for a change and I fucked her in her messy diaper. Thank God I was drunk because looking back it was kinda nasty with her shit all over the two of us, post-fuck.

>>11004 Sometimes. We are both more on the DL side of things, but have done some AB stuff too. Probably the best story relating to it was when she was the big for the first time, and discovered she totally has a bit of a mommy-dom kink in her.

>>20843 what was the name of that book?

>>11463 So im also married to a normie women, she plays along with it. But is your wife "into" it or rather is she dominant when playing with you? Im a switch and Ive been trying to pavlov my wife into being a better dom but I think its impossible

ITT: A bunch of sad lonely men discussion their fantasies as though they were real Truthfully I'm probably one of only 5 or so people that frequently this board that even have a girlfriend let alone have a girlfriend willing to do ABDL shit with them. Go touch grass.

>>21881 She’s not ABDL and is just dominant. She does a good job of playing along with ABDL play though

>>21884 liar

I keep thinking I've posted in this thread and then remember I haven't. I'll share my situation though it's not very exciting >Dated gf 3 years before telling her I like to imagine I'm a little boy and she's my mommy >Took it well, we got married shortly after >For our first Valentine's Day married, she planned to get me a pacifier >When that lead her to find ABDL stuff it caused her to get pretty freaked out >I calmed her down and offered to talk to her about it when she's ready >We never did, to this day she knows I like diapers but we don't talk about it >She did warm up though and bought me more pacifiers, put me in a onesie that I bought, has talked about buying me a nipple bottle (this has never happened though and I am kind of hopeful then disappointed every Christmas/birthday). >About half the time when we're in bed she'll "baby" me, playing along with roleplaying like talking about bedtime, nursing, finding a babysitter, singing lullabies, spankings for "acting too grown up", etc. Basically she's happy to play out age regression fantasies with me, but diapers are too far. I am thankful for what I have though, I'm not going to push things. I do have a stash of diapers that she hasn't found, but it's not super concealed, just out of sight. If she ever confronted me about it I would honestly tell her it wasn't meant to be secret, just kept out of her view in respect for her dislike of them. Since I don't use them very often, it's not a big deal.

>>21884 Is this some weird incel projection? This little niche area is probably older fags from 4chan fifteen years ago, we were teens/young adults then, so I expect the userbase is most 30s and 40s now. Of course people have wives and girlfriends at this point, we're not all thirsty teens anymore, we just like playing like we are on the internet.

>>21932 Not projection, but I can see why you'd say that. But anyway sorry, I don't buy it. There are probably people here with ABDL girlfriends but very few. Most people in this thread are in my view pathetic losers who wish they had this lifestyle and never will. It's fairly rare to find an ABDL girlfriend and actually have a meaningful relationship with them for long periods of time. Specifically because people that are into this shit are usually wackjobs and incapable of being in a long term relationship without wanting to murder their partner. 8chan has been in many news outlets besides. I'd argue that most people here are between the ages of 18 and 28 due to the influx of cringe QAnon supporters that flocked to these boards in recent years. But, I dunno. Maybe I'm wrong. Probably not though let's be honest.

>>21954 Qanons average older than you think, I run into them IRL occasionally. Most ABDLs aren't freaks, but we mostly normie ABDLs post and meet a lot less than we used to because lefty freaks have taken over the community, which makes sense as they have nothing to fear from being outed.

>>21973 >>21954 >>21932 All cringe posts that are hardly on topic. Having a partner who understands your fetish is not about politics. Please shut up if you don't have a story. >but I'm cool for not believing other people You can't verify anything you read on this site. You can make a choice to accept it at face value (costs you nothing) or to disregard it. If you want to dismiss someone's story, that's fine, but you add nothing to the thread by saying you're a cool disbeliever edgelord. Just keep scrolling. Better for this thread to die from lack of bumps than to become the repository for posts like "having a wife who you are sexually open with is QAnon roleplay". Embarrassing.

>>21979 >please shut up if you don't have a story No. >add nothing to the thread Kind of like you're doing right now, right? Adding nothing by engaging with me. Yikes. I personally find good value in educating ignorant folk that these stories are simply stories and works of fiction. It dissolves the silly little fantasy that with those greasy Cheeto hands and unkempt hair that "they too can have an ABDL girlfriend!" Keeping people grounded in reality is important. As is informing people that they are pitiful. Even if you think it's cringe or embarrassing, it helps...sometimes anyway. Sometimes it takes an outsides eyes to make a person realize they need to make changes in their lives. I didn't owe you an explanation as to why I made my initial comment, but there you go. I did get a chuckle out of you telling me to shut up on a chan board though. You must be new here. As for bumping the thread, well... there's ways around that, newfag.

>>21984 god you're an insufferable faggot

>>21984 It's actually embarrassing how much of a cringy 14 year old you are. A literal nobody who has done nothing but come to brag about how cool, smart, and non-cringe he is! How do you have so little self-awareness that you can completely unironically make posts like >You're all greasy lonely losers, but ~I~ actually have a girlfriend from Canada, Reddit Gold, and studied the katana, which is why I alone am smart enough to determine that all posts are works of fiction Here's your next move: you're going to get a rush of excitement when you turn 15, and start namefagging. People are going to start hiding your posts. You're gonna get pissy again, whine like a baby, call everyone greasy and unwashed, then go back to Reddit where you belong.

>>21985 Yeah well, that's just like, your opinion man. An opinion likely formed because I triggered you. Relax. Life is too short to be angry all the time. >>21988 That's a lot of vitriol and assumptions. The former being sad to see, and the latter being extremely off-base. I'm married, with 3 kids. I met my ABDL wife by EXTREME luck. We just happened to live close to one another and it just happened to work out. It's a rare thing. I spent 12 years of my life looking for a girl that was into similar things. And I'm a normal guy, truly. I work a corporate job, I make a decent amount of money. I can't imagine how insanely impossible it would be for someone who still lives like they are in college or even highschool for that matter to find what I have. You can call me whatever names you'd like, you can rage at me, rant at me, whatever. It literally doesn't do anything. The reality is everything I've said here is true. Most people here are greasy neckbeards who aren't in the right headspace or position in their lives to fulfill these fantasies. You might as well rename this thread "fantasy stories/what I want if I wasn't a greasy faggot" because that's pretty much what it is. >go back to reddit like you belong The fact that you feel this way proves you're immature as fuck. I can't imagine being so much of a loser that you think 8chan is the holy grail of the internet and any other website is cancerous. Here's your next move: You're going to reply to me and call me cringe, call me a loser, call me whatever your small brain can come up with. And then, after some time and some denial, you will realize that I have a point and you will self reflect on your own pathetic life and realize that ultimately the things I've said are really for your benefit and that you were the one who truly was cringe in this situation. Do you have anything else to add? Or are we done here?

>>21991 The original non-believer bab was saying it's impossible for a handful of babs to have an ABDL. Aside from their own relationship, that bab believed that everything posted in this thread was fap fiction. Other babs pointed out that that thought isn't true. Stupid argument ensued. Granted, I avoided said arguments until now to clarify the stupidity. I did post a couple snippets from my wife and I's play earlier in the thread, not that it matters here. tl;dr this argument is stupid and off topic. post content instead.

>>21993 yo im not a foot guy but that second pic... what the hell is wrong with her soles?

>>21994 Never noticed that before, but what the holy fuck is going on there....

>>21995 >men's feet. its a trap, zooey something, the mexican abdl that did a podcast recently

>>20923 I believe it was this one https://www.amazon.com/So-Your-Husband-ABDL-Discipline-ebook/dp/B08V4T4B4F

>>21997 i'm a man and my feet don't look like that

>>21994 didn't notice at first, but what in the name of hell... now only thing I can see on that picture are these feet

>>21991 you have 3 children but you have time to defend your autism on 8chan? seems unreasonable.

>>21997 Is trench foot common in Mexico?

>>22004 I work from home, and all my kids go to school in the mornings. You act like coming here to post things is time consuming. It's not. As for autism, I have never officially been diagnosed. I do admit to having some autistic traits, however. We all wear diapers, so surely most people here have autistic traits, yes? And yet, my life is still great, and my points are still valid. It changes nothing. Do you want to swing again, because you just swung and missed my guy.

Anyone wanna be friends? Kik e4091

>>23598 people still use that shit app? eww

>>23602 Okay then

>>21954 kys

Floated the idea with most of my long term GF's and none of them were particularly into diapers. My last relationship she identified heavily as a brat and liked using pacifiers. I remember the first time she opened up about it when we first started dating, she put a pacifier in and was giving me a hand job and I came fucking buckets, never came from a hand job before or after that. We were together for almost a decade and although she would placate me and wear a pull up/goodnite it just wasn't that great cus she wasn't into it. When I was younger I'd have her wear all the time and she would wet for me and I would fuck her in a wet pullup but it just kinda got old. I'm still on the hunt for an actual diaper loving partner and am actively searching atm. I've met three ABDL people IRL: two FTM trans people and one MTF trans person. Unfortunately its meeting these people that made me realize I am super duper not into trans people of any kind sexually, I think I might be into a very very early stage FTM that still can get wet and take dick, but the two I met have been taking T for many years, don't/can't take dick in their pussy, and are hairy AF. The MTF trans had a HUGE dick and it was very offputting. Honestly, I think its kind of a trick/punishment from God for me capitulating to my baser sexual desires that the only people in the ABDL community to show sexual interest in me are the people I have no sexual interest in. I figure I've got a few more years of being decent looking and young enough to attract a good partner/mate so I'm going to keep trying to find a DL to settle down with. If that doesn't work out I'll go the DDLG--> Pullups--> Diaper pipeline with some QT normie girl that I find on Okcupid or some shit.

>>25280 Sorry to hear your experiences. I literally have been trying to find someone that is interested in even having a normal relationship WITH this sort of thing intertwined. Happy to chat.

>>25281 It's never something I introduce until I'm comfortable with the person but in my experience if someone really cares for you they will pretty much try anything to make you happy. My ex broke up with me a few months ago after a several year relationship and I'm definitely having a tough time accepting love back into my life, hoping putting myself out there more and being clear and confident in my desires is the solution. What is your discord?

My fiance and I are AB/DL, originally when we met she was more of a little and I was the caretaker. But over time she began to really enjoy a more dominant role. She's willing to pretty much do anything with me that involves AB/DL, even messing, although I'm always too embarrassed to have her change me. Probably my fondest memory is straddling her so we were facing eachother and bouncing in her lap with one of those bullet vibes in my wet diaper. She cooed and encouraged me so well that I ended up messing during it which I never usually do, she teased me for having an accident and I came buckets really quickly after that.

>>25314 This link will expire in a day. https://paste.bingner.com/paste/opv7c It's just a pastebin. I just don't want others adding me and my account being cached.

>>25324 ah farts I'm sure you know the shame involved with indulging the diaper side of life.. I visit this site maybe once a week. You can shoot me a message here: Anandamide#7258

>>25619 I sent you a request.