All the wheels are now spinning and I feel ok about the coming week. I'm less upset than I thought I would be. It just sucks, a lot. I've also got free time and energy now, so I'd like to be productive so I can feel better on that end too. I'll try to catch up with the whole thread, and since it is now bumplocked, I'll start the process to get it archived at
>>>/hydrus/ and make a new one.
I figure the hydrus user-base runs on the younger side, so most of you haven't lost a parent yet. The actual process of it has not been nearly as awful as I feared. I'd recommend you talk to your parents now while they are alive about what sort of funeral they eventually want, and make sure everyone in the family are all on the same page. You are going to be picking a casket, choosing music and flowers, making decisions on embalming and cremation and tissue donation, whether anyone is going to speak, if there will be a service and what sort, all the nitty-gritty 'someone has to decide, and now it is your turn' stuff. You can even plan your own, to relieve your children of the problem, which we are probably going to do for my Mum once things have settled down. Our family also sorted out wills a decade or so ago, and I can't recommend it highly enough. Spend a few hundred bucks now to save yourself a nightmare later. Anyway, if you are terrified of your parents dying, let me tell you it doesn't have to be the worst thing--it could be one of the most common experiences our ancestors had--but you have to be pragmatic and maybe have some difficult conversations now.
>>18185
I fit this in to v499, I expect you already saw if you do this often enough. I went with 'clearing mass-pasted junk'.
>>18186
The downloader forces some minimum and maximum time deltas in order to keep things working. If I remember correctly, for galleries' file search, it won't wait more than 30 seconds or so between page turns because if it obeyed normal bandwidth rules, it could be four hours between successive fetches, and if a lot of uploading happened in that four hours, the downloader would lose its place and stop since it would see stuff it fetched in a previous page. For standard booru page fetches, it also forces the raw file download a few seconds after the html/json page fetch because some sites have 'tokenised' file download links that time out after a minute or two.
That said, check the options under
options->downloading. Under the 'gallery downloader' and 'subscriptions' headings, you can set some global force-waits. Maybe if you bump those up to two minutes or similar, things will still work ok, but you'll get your slower access?
Let me know that works for you. I haven't tested such slow access, so there may still be a hardcoded 30 second rule coming in or similar. If you click the little 'cog' icon when the job is waiting on bandwidth, it should tell you exactly what domains it is waiting on, which may help investigating what is and isn't holding things up. If we can pin down what doesn't work for you, I can expose these hardcoded waits in more options etc... and see if we can get you working. I also expect, one day, to export almost all the 'connection' and 'downloading' options to a domain manager that will track separate options for different domains, much like how the bandwidth rules work, so one day you'll be able to set a long delay for sank but a shorter default for all other sites.
>>18189
'Not related' is a positive, permanent relationship, not a dismissal, and if I remember right, the way it actually applies in the database is fairly inefficient. I think it may require a connection for every pair combination in the group, so for a group of ten files, it makes I think 10!/(2!*8!), or 45 new database records. Since it is advanced and awkward, I don't think I expose it much to the normal user. In general, the 'not related' relationship's main use is to say that a
potential duplicate, as you see in the duplicate filter, was a false positive.
In general, false positives tend to be fairly rare. Are you finding you are getting a lot of them? Can you say what search distance you have searched? Could these be being found at, say, hamming distance of 10 or more?
If you would like to blat a command that is more of a dismissal, like 'of these 10 files,
if there are any potential duplicate relationships, then set
those as false positive', then perhaps I should add that. Maybe that more human idea should be the general default of how I present this idea to the user, and I handle making the bullshit technical efficiency stuff in the background.