>>19314
Kind of natural tbh. I have a large family there are things that the women know and talk about that the men don't need to hear, typically I just tune them out when I think I'll overhear "girl talk" amongst my family, I don't need to know about their love lives. It's the same for the men in our family, we don't necessarily talk about sex, it's very rare, but things concerning work, business, crime, safety, law, court, finances, property get discussed amongst us and not the women because they don't really need the stress of worrying about what gangs their sons are joining in prison. Anyway, I know for a fact that It's not exactly rare for women to have had black boyfriends in their youth, in college or in high school. There's always the question of, "what if?" with them because dating or marrying those guys was frowned upon back then and would get those girls ostracized from their family and even friends, so they break up, even if their black boyfriends were good boyfriends. And that's what the women are usually talking about, boils down to was he was nice, thoughtful, and good in bed. It was pretty hard to support yourself back then without help from your family and community. That's less of the case these days, so that makes black men a little safer to settle down with now, and it's not a scandal if your zoomer or millennial daughter brings a black man home.