i'm straight and have an exclusive diaper paraphilia. i've found myself cumming to the guy in diaper sex videos at times, so i've tried to sample some gay/male content. it's been a mixed bag. the times i find myself getting off to it, seem to be way more about seeing big thick huge soaked pampers than anything to do with who is wearing them. the times i find myself turned off by it, seem to be because i'm just not sexually attracted to men. or, i guess i could say, i am significantly less sexually attracted to men than i am to women, even though there are men in diapers i would prefer to see over women in vanilla contexts. there are times i really do wish i enjoyed men in diapers more, or messing, because there are huge swaths of content in an already niche/bizarre space that i just am not wired to enjoy. i think to enjoy guys in diapers, they have to be in shape, no body hair, display an actual interest in the fetish, not talk (or at least not have a really annoying voice), and of course be wearing a diaper that fits well/is thick enough. but i could say all of that about women in diapers, and it'd still be true. so i don't really know. my understanding of why normie straight men will watch porn where guys fuck women and not solely lesbian scenes is because they like watching penetrative fucking occur and aren't attracted to the guy so much as "the act of sex". i guess that parallels my diaper fetish version. or maybe i'm just porn sick and it's warping my sexuality. either way, absolutely zero percent chance i would ever do anything with a man IRL, regardless of diapers.

>>25080 I started out only watching straight and lesbian. Supply side issues have led me to watch a ton of gay diaper porn. Or at least that's waht I thought it was, because now i can acknowledge that lots of my puberty era fantasies about diapers involved other boys I knew and I have grown into appreciate male/male eroticism more. I don't mind watching a twink boy cum hands free while getting pounded even without diapers. That said I absolutely despise sissy stuff, no feminization, I don't like most trans porn either and for gay stuff I can't do hairy bears, unless he's domming a soft twink. Dunno why but gender role stuff really shuts me down, I'd rather see a guy in a diaper become boyish and youthful than be feminized. As for lesbians, I love it, but there is so little content where it doesn't feel like the girls are just jobbing it to pay the bills. There are a few exceptions though, like picrel.

>>36267 I love seeing diaper humping aka diaper sex (not kind where you fuck though legholes) and they are sadly rare only female ones i could find ks these girls wearing 42 layers of diapers where they grind and hump https://www.empflix.com/blonde-porn/wenona-and-aaliyah-locked-in-42-diapers/video1270849 But is often guys who do the most grinding in gay Diaper porn

I'm like 100% straight with vanilla, but I'm pretty flexible with diapers. I have a particular fixation on guys grinding/dry humping in diapers, but I rarely, if ever, find porn of it that isn't just gay sex. Once the diapers come off I just lose interest. I've jerked off to the odd solo diaper boy picture on Fetlife though. I am willing to do more than just sample porn. I once met up with another guy for some diaper play (with the community at large being 99% male you kind of have to be willing to go a bit gay), we diapered each other and touched and rubbed diapers, it was enjoyable but not as stimulating as I'd expected and had to finish with a wand. We hung out vanilla one more time after that and then he kinda ghosted me, and I haven't really tried again with anyone else since.

>>36301 That actually sounds like exactly what I'd want in an ABDL encounter. I'm not interested in a real long term M/M relationship, just handsy diaper changes, video games and some mutual magic wand grinding.

Straight but have watched two guys in diaper porn before. Diaper changes are my number one thing I like in porn so if it's two guys I'm still turned on. Femboy/sissy punishment/roleplay also does it for me even if it's with two guys. Once diapers are off and penetration is involved I'm out though. It's like I'm imagining myself in that scenario which is something I would like to do sometime. Not opposed to having a caretaker that's a guy. I'd love to meet up with another guy for some diaper fun, wouldn't hate like handjobs during changes either. I'm comfortable with my sexuality but not for penetration. Either full AB/DL roleplay or just hanging out in diapers and changing each other would be fun.

>>36308 I hadn't had the chance to acknowledge that I would enjoy some erotic diaper bro time before I got married. I love my wife but she's just not interested in doing ABDL stuff with me. I hope some day I can figure out a situation where I get my ABDL desires met with another guy, I just fear that that will never work for my wife, she's already insecure about losing me to other women and I'm terrfied that even if she agreed it would destroy her inside.

Wow at all the straight diaper guys willing to do diaper play with other guys because girls aren't an option. That is so fucking hot. Sorry you cant find girls though. As a gay I only met a diaper daddy once though. He made me suck his dick, drink his piss from a baby bottle, and spit on me. I just wanted to wear diapers with him and give him oral. First time someone changed my diaper since my parents and it was hot but he ghosted me. Havent even bothered to look for another daddy because you can never find anyone. >>36306 >>36308 >>36309 >>36301 Would love to meet and do diaper play with guys like you. But damn I would really want to suck you off. You wouldn't have to do anything to me. Would getting blowjobs be a deal breaker?

>>36326 >Wow at all the straight diaper guys willing to do diaper play with other guys because girls aren't an option. I dont understand why not people dont accept they're bisexual, there's nothing wrong with it at all. Using that sort of mental gymnastics to "oh no, I am straight, I am just getting a handjob in a diaper with a fellow diaper bro" god damn...

>>36327 Stop fucking with my boner. When I said diaper play i didn't mean they were all looking for handjobs. Just like two guys hanging out with only diapers and a t-shirt on. If handies happen to happen big fucking deal. Do it with a baby wipe during a change and if he happens to blow a load it was just cleaning. Not everyone wants to be identified with the LGBTQ+ZMWBBC shit.

>>36327 I'm only hesitant to use the label as I have never actually done anything with a dude. I'm willing to accept it but it's untested. But I get it, I'm not gonna jerk a guy off and just say "no homo" lol. >>36328 Exactly, I don't need to identify with some groups or online cultures unless I want to, I can just have some hot diaper boy action and not feel the need to become a card carrying alphabet soup member.

>>36326 Not that girls aren't an option just would take a lot more work/time and I can find dudes willing to do diaper play instantly lol. Talked to a few on Reddit and could've definitely met up if I wanted to. I don't really care much for labels either, I'm just extremely sexually attracted to diapers lol. There is no scenario in which I would do something with another guy that didn't involve diapers and I would never want to penetrate or be penetrated. The diapers and getting changed is just that strong of an attraction. I get hard just thinking about the word diaper haha. So I suppose I'm just flexible but yeah doesn't matter for me. As for diaper play I don't think I'd mind being jerked or sucked off because I would be hard anyway. Might as well try it out. I'd totally be down for meeting people from here after chatting for a bit of course. Shoot me a message at diaperthrowaway23@gmail.com if you or anyone wants to talk.

Gay males who have female caretakers are living the best abdl life

>>36341 It's called being diapersexual