I'm approaching my 40's now, I've been a lifelong ABDL, always had a fascination with diapers...etc, but I've had a few binge/purge cycles over the years, though I've always had a huge amount of self-hate regarding this fetish. I've mostly purged without a binge cycle.
When I turned 19, I threw away my meager stash at the time (some Depend diapers and baby powder) in rage and regret, saying "I'll never go back to that again!"
Spoiler alert: A month later I was buying diapers again.
At 21, I once again decided to purge an entire case of Abena M4's back when they were good after my cunt of a mother attempted to blackmail me into paying her bills, again saying "I'm done" and again followed by rebuying a month later.
At 26, I again purged, this time a huge amount of diapers: An entire case of ABU 1.0 cloth backed Cushies, an entire case of the Classico Bambino diapers, two Babykins cloth diapers and their accompanying plastic pants, misc bottles and pacifiers, a playpen I bought for cringe solo larping and a DVD9 full of files from an ABDL torrent I found back then.
Ever since I've crossed my 30's, I've not had a huge purge.
At the moment though, the self-hate has come back in large amounts as I realize more and more that though I'll never be rid of ABDL urges, I'm far too politically right-wing to ever be accepted by the SJW faggots in general, let alone those in ABDL. The inmates have truly taken over the asylum and it's just pathetic. Everytime I buy ABDL diapers, I'm giving money to people who hate me and would have me executed because I won't call a man with a mutilated penis a woman and refuse to use anything other than the two only correct choices for gender to refer to them. Troons and SJW faggots have ruined every other niche (Vidya,Tabletop, Anime, Manga) and the ABDL community at large is fucking intolerable outside of this board. chan boards have maybe 5 years left, after that it's pretty much over for anywhere that's not a giant hugbox full of pronouns in bio sniffing eachother's diapers and pretending their own shit don't stink.
I've resolved not to purge again, because why the fuck should I?