I just did some inner animal work and remembered that there's a way to look at sexually attractive women without your inner animal wanting you to fuck them, and also without denying yourself the ability to share your genetic material with them. This is important to be able to do if you or she already have a mate, and especially if one or both of you have children.
Normally, if you have a family with one man, one woman, and their children, then the family will be more stable than a broken family, which means that the children will be more likely to be nurtured well. Don't forget that in the nature vs. nurture debate, nurture matters too, and much more than just a little bit, and not just because different souls that are incarnated into the same genetic material may have different requirements for their nurturing. Therefore, the potential of your children to survive depends not just upon how hot the woman you fuck is, but it also depends upon how the children are raised, and she typically won't do a good job at that by herself.
Anyway, normally, if you have such a stable family, then cheating on your mate to fuck a new woman will de-stabilize your family, which will reduce the chances that your pre-existing children will survive, and then you might not even get to reproduce with the new woman just because you fuck her, nor just because you cum inside of her. This gets even more complicated & dangerous if she already had herself a man too.
If a new woman looks really hot, but you already have yourself a woman that you wanna be loyal to so that the family you make with your woman can remain stable, then you can do inner animal work to cause your inner animal to, instead of desiring to directly reproduce with her, desire to have the children that you make with the woman that you already have, reproduce with the children that the new woman will make.
This way, you'll be able to half-reproduce with the new woman without destabilizing either your family or her family. Instead of creating the generation after yours with the new woman, you can use her and your friendship with her and her man to ease your children into creating the generation that'll come after them. After all, your children need to fuck someone if you're gonna have grandchildren, and if the new woman's genetic material is sexually attractive to you, then the genetic material of the new woman's children will likely be sexually attractive to your children that you have with your woman.
Plus, if you befriend the new woman and her man instead of seducing the new woman, and thus you don't destablize the new woman's family, then the new woman and her family might also help you raise your children, which will give your children easy sexual access to her children if they get along well.
Do not ever forget that the entire point of sex is supposed to be reproduction. If you don't attempt to reproduce when you have sex, or at least bond with your woman that you intend to later have children with, then the sex is pointless.
If you do inner animal work as such correctly, then if you already have a woman, and then you see a new sexually attractive woman, you should be able to look at her and be happy without your inner animal desiring to fuck her. You should see the potential to make grandchildren with her instead of the potential to make children with her, and thus, your relationship with your current woman should be safe.
As an added bonus, if you're a fag, then you should be able to look at sexually attractive guys the same way if you're trying to cure yourself of faggotry.