here's a (sad) story of how I met an ABDL girl in the wild
>decide to take a language class
>a few months in a cute new girl shows up, she's wearing full overalls
>she looks a bit like littlestkittenx but cuter
>had me wondering if she was ABDL but figured I shouldn't think too much of it
>in a peer practice excercise she immediately comes over to me and introduces herself
>(does she like me?)
>see her again next class
>not wearing overalls but notice her shirt is fully tucked in
>has me wondering again but couldn't tell for sure if she was padded or not
>she looks over at me sometimes, makes eye contact
>talk to her after class, find out she works in the same field as me
>one week, I arrive to class and I'm walking in behind her
>glance at at her butt as she walks and see what clearly appears to be the sublty protruding bulk of a diaper
>oh shit, she must really be ABDL
>I try to chat with her after class and I get her number
>at this point she's fairly responsive and seems to like me
>invite her to some event for people in my work field so I can get to know her (very dumb idea in hindsight)
>the next week she enters class late and comes up near my table and sort of stands there, really awkwardly and somewhat expressionless
>then she suddenly smiles and waves and says "hi" in a weird way
>from the way this went I think it's not far fetched to suspect she was secretly peeing herself during this
>she walks back to her table
>in the coming weeks I notice sometimes she dressed more like a little (subtly) with her shirt firmly tucked in
>other times shes dressed more adult like
>her behaviour/vibe would be different also
>one recurring thing she wore was a tshirt with a cute little bear on it
>if she wore it I figured she was diapered up
>she ends up coming to the event I invited her to, dressed in adult mode of course
>didn't want to mess things up so I tried to not show too much interest and play things cool