A word on Pamperchu.
First off yes I'm an old like Gen X made in the 70's old. But that also means I've spent a ton of time in the AB/DL scene. It also means I've know or do currently know many of the OGs from back in the day. Yes I know Pamperchu, I use to send him old obsolete technology. Like 386, 486 Mobos and stuff, he was really into old tech.
So yes Pamperchu did have a thing for wearing used diapers. But honestly take a look around this site! How many threads, stories, drawings, etc are there about that. It's not like it's an uncommon desire. Yes he did microwave them to kill off bacteria, kind of gross but I get not wanting a UTI.
No he didn't get cancer from doing that. He got thyroid cancer. It's usually genetic, but can be environmental. You can also get it from low iodine levels and being exposed to radiation. It's one of the most common and easily curable cancers you can get. It's one that just happens.
The pedo thing, okay this one is complex and VERY misunderstood, especially by you younger folks who just grew up with the internet, and a fully developed kink (AB/DL) scene. Before the internet, meeting fellow kinksters was VERY difficult. You young folks don't realize how easy you have it. You can literally get pics, vids, stories of people of any age, size, color etc, chat and easily meet others, in just an hour or two on your phone.
Back in the day, and even in the early days of the internet really the ONLY wide available pictures of diapers was, well kids/tots. If you got REALLY lucky you might find a jewish or teen in a diaper, so you made do with what you had. In my younger days, when I was 15-16 yo. I had about 20 Diskettes with teens (my age) jewishs, even a few toddlers on them. I know that sounds bad and like a lot. But a diskette only holds 1.44 megabits. So 20 was only about 29 megabits, yeah not a lot. I think you could fit many 30ish low res images on one. Anyway the point is I wasn't fantasizing about having sex with the kids in the pictures. I was fantasizing about BEING the kids in the pictures. Like Harry Potter fans that collect merch. 99.9% don't want to have sex with him. They want to be him, to be a wizard or witch, to attend Hogwarts.
It's why sites like Deekers were popular. As a 15 yo I wanted to be the 12,13,14 yo in the stories being diaper punished. I didn't want to have sex with the characters in the stories. Anyway as I grew and the internet grew, and diaper kink stuff became widely available. All the cringey stuff was deleted out of my fap banks.
The point being back in the day there wasn't a lot out there so we made do the best we could. In retrospect did that make us pedophiles? No, maybe curators of cringe, but most of us were just desperate for fap stuff, and you take what you can get. So was Pamperchu a pedo? No more than most of us earlier to the scene were. Again most of us did that best we could with what was out there.
No Pamperchu is not gay, maybe bi but not gay. Again back in the early days of the internet it was hard to meet fellow kinksters. Like today dudes in this scene are a dime a dozen. So for a lot of us earlier AB/DLs our first "Caregivers" were guys, usually gay ones. My first two caregivers were guys, one gay. Just like all the above stuff, we made do with what was available. Most people like my younger self just wanted someone to bath, diaper and dress us. Give us a bottle and cuddly with us on the couch and watch The Lion King. I knew one of my daddies was just getting off rubbing lotion and baby powder into my 17yo crotch. FUCK it I was being diaper and babied! We both were getting something out of it, and both were consenting to it. Was it cringe as fuck, hell yes, but again we made the best of what we had. So yeah lots of early AB guys had daddies before mommies, yes this included Pamperchu.
As I grew and most of my horny AB kink wants and desires tapered off. I stop all my cringe, attention seeking, somewhat questionable and dangerous behaviors. I got an education, a job, bought a house, got married and became a family man. Like most people I grew out of my stupid teenage years and became a stupid adult. And yes so did Pamperchu, as did a lot of the OG AB/DLs out there. Most of the young folk here will one-day do the same.
So yeah Pamperchu bought a house, got married and started a family, and is for the most part adulting, it happens to most of us. I apologize if this was TMI, but figured context was needed.