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>>25960 I know communication is essential, I've told loads of others the same thing. I've tried to voice what I want to try and what I'd like. That I really want to be dominated and several scenarios I want to try. It feels like it's just met with reasons why we don't, that what I'm talking about isn't real cg/l daily life, and promises that we'll be able to do some of it later. Usually after our conversation, they'll ask if I want to be put in a diaper now...which just makes it feel like they're doing it to appease me but not because it's what they want...kind of like they're going through the motions and not really into it. I've toyed with the idea of trying to top from the playpen...but that's not really what I enjoy. I don't want to come up with the scenarios and what things we do...I just do it now because I'm craving any form of a real cg/l lifestyle. I desperately want my cg to dom me and take control. That's honestly how it feels a lot of the time when we do baby stuff. Like they're just going through the motions and they aren't really engaged. It really makes me start to think "Are they actually attracted to this? Do they really enjoy being a cg? Am I doing something wrong? Do I look weird doing this? Am I not cute enough for them to really enjoy and get turned on by this?" stuff like that. I want them to do these things because it's what they enjoy and get turned on by. I want to also know the things I do make them happy and that they enjoy our relationship more when I serve their wants/needs. I want them to enjoy dominating me and giving me tasks/rules/picking out clothes for me they want to see me in. Whatever they want me to do I'd be willing to do, I don't want to come off as selfish I want to fulfill their needs/wants too. I'll ask if they need help around the house and they tell me things like "You can just sit there and be my cute baby." But that doesn't feel like I'm really serving them. Or I'll tell them I feel bad for not being a little more often or being a sub for them. and they give me the generic "You're always my little baby no matter what you're doing or wearing." Which yeah, that's cute and nice to hear, but I don't feel like I'm in a cg/l relationship and where I am actually subbing for them. For the record, I'm not asking to be a baby 24/7, I know that's not possible and burnout can occur. I would just like some rules, directions, chores, and aspects of little space 24/7. The things I'm asking for aren't even really that crazy. Just occasionally like putting out a playmat or playpen (both things we already have) and telling me I can't move off it or leave the area until my cg tells me or lets me out. For it to be somewhat normal for me to be laying in front of my cg while they're reading or watching tv and me playing in the playpen, to have my diaper randomly checked or changed without me having to tell my cg I could probably use a change, Them telling me it's time for a nap or bedtime and to help me get ready or make sure I brush my teeth and stuff. Actually having rules and expecting me to follow them and doing punishment stuff if I don't. I also want them to use me at times, say they're feeling sexual and they want me to fulfill that desire from them, tell me they'd want that, and let me handle those needs for my cg. As it is right now most of the time I do get into a diaper, I run to get a stuffie and curl up on my side of the couch with it and they're on their side...and we just watch tv without much really changing in our dynamic. It's just like...okay you're in a diaper, that's all that's changed. You're not in little headspace, you just go about doing whatever and come tell me when you want a change. They've toyed with the idea of maybe finding some more baby friends for me to bring to the house and play with, but my CG barely does any stuff with me, doesn't really enforce rules, and doesn't act like a dom. I just feel like it'd be a waste and the baby friend I brought over would end up feeling like I do, where we'd get put in diapers and then nothing else would happen. I think it'd be better if we found another cg/l couple to play with together, but I don't believe my cg wants to be around other cgs.

>>25973 >Usually after our conversation, they'll ask if I want to be put in a diaper now...which just makes it feel like they're doing it to appease me but not because it's what they want...kind of like they're going through the motions and not really into it. another thing about this is the fact they ask me..instead of telling me I'm getting put in a diaper or being upset that I wasn't in a diaper already...maybe I just need to start peeing my pants anytime I'm not wearing them.

>>25973 Sounds like you need therapy or a moderator to work out your feelings. >don't believe my cg wants to be around other cgs. Is this a thing? Do bigs just not like doing things with other bigs? Is it a power struggle thing?

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>>24730 >be very specific with my desired fantasies >many dommes will simply say to me they are not an actress and will not participate in that amount of details I call bullshit.

>>25779 I'm sorry you're finding it difficult to find someone to dom you. >they are not an actress and will not participate in that amount of details They are human as well, some doms have a standard session they do and won't make a lot of changes to that session. This could be for a myriad of reasons like space, where they live, things they have available, time, etc. Others are more willing to do just about anything and love to improve. It really depends on the individual dom and what you're asking them to do. Like are you asking them to wear a certain color wig and clothes while going under a different name or something? Are you asking them to do an activity that is a hard limit for them? Are your scenarios even feasible to do? (obviously, not all doms can pick you up and carry you, and they can't shrink you and things like that. So try to keep your request based on some form of reality.) The reason I say be as specific as you can is so you and the dom know what the other expects. You're supposed to hold a conversation with them and see what they and you are both looking for and willing to do. If something you want to do is impossible for them, or a line they won't cross and not having that in the scenario is a deal breaker for you then there's no point in continuing dialog with that dom. No harm no foul, it just wasn't meant to be so move and look for someone who IS willing to do those things for you. Say they won't or can't play out the scenario you've spent months concocting and fantasizing about. exactly the way you want it. But they can do SOME of those things and are willing to work that into the play session. Are you going to freak out over a minor change or are you willing to compromise? Then you should try to find something that works out for both of you and continue to work towards an understanding. Using this conversation time also allows them to feel you out and you to feel them out. They obviously need to know who and the type of person they're inviting into their home/space. Both parties need to know who they're meeting with for their own safety, if someone comes off as unhinged in text and conversations you probably wouldn't want to be around that person in real life because it could put their own life in danger.

>>25810 I am certainly not asking for specific material stuff, I actually have my own toys, diapers, clothes, ANYTHING baby I have it so they dont have to worry about anything in that regard. Being carried would be awesome but finding a domme who is willing to deal with diapers is so rare that I never even entertain the idea of stuff like being handled/dominated/carried because I know it just is not feaseble (eventhough I am quite short and under 110lbs) I keep myself respectful and honest all the time, but I have been scammed once when asked for a deposit for a session so nowadays I am EXTREMELY careful in that regard, MANY professionals take offense to that, even in some rare occasions I feel a bit reluctant about giving dommes my phone number because I have dealt with a few panic attacks after I was scammed because the person has not only my money but my real full name........... My main desire is engagement on a mental level, on a role level, on a roleplaying D/s - Mommy - baby level... its about the dynamic we can create together. I want regression, of course not physical, but mental regression to an extent I feel many dommes dont comprehend. I want words to crack down my willpower, I want tenderness to melt my adult armor, I want gentle caresses that confuse and make me feel naughty, I want someone who can play an adoring Mommy who constantly reminds me "babies cant walk, crawl for me little baby" "babies cant talk, babble for me baby" "no thoughts in babys head, just happy feelings in that baby mushy brain" if I disobey, Mommy is allowed to correct me and put in my baby place, not in a cruel way in a maternal way, in a way where she simply gives me a statement and I know it to be true, because she is Mommy and she makes all of the rules, I dont want to be jacked off and on my way, I want her to take her time, tease me, heck I would LOVE IT if she says she HATES babys with big peepee and that I should have a tiny weewee because I am a baby, all adultness must be removed from me, because anything else feels off after all I am a baby, I am Mommys baby and she will make sure I am her perfect baby, with enough love, training and reinforcement of baby activities, behavior, training, thoughts and conditioning.

>>25645 What exactly is about this game people like I tried it and i found it rather boring

>>19170 >>19201 >>19204 Been using the latest bedwetting/incon mod, and while it's jank as fuck because of Highschool, everything seems to work as intended for me. Nothing fatal like losing my saves or anything like that. Mostly anything related to going to School or School Related Activities completely kills the AI.

>>67 Lots of diaperable (and mommifiable) girls there too. Alicia being a diapered mommy, Aisha tying to act older but being extremely cute and babyable, Nancy being the klutz that she is and forgetting to go potty, Edy being a brat and refusing to admit her issues, Dallas being a pervert and pretending to use diapers to get close to Alicia, Catherine being ptsd and needing them as well as some Little time at times but overall remaining very competent, etc. Even some of the boys could fit imo like the two brothers, Homer, Montley, etc.

>>3764 For when the robot uprising happens and they all turn us into babies with nano machines? I guess being built to be strong enough to deal with a crying child but not strong enough to deal with a full grown human. Don't want anything happening like the Helper Bot on Venture Bros.

>>4064 Can't forget the heating pads. Metal is a mite too cold for little children.

>>25314 This link will expire in a day. https://paste.bingner.com/paste/opv7c It's just a pastebin. I just don't want others adding me and my account being cached.

>>25324 ah farts I'm sure you know the shame involved with indulging the diaper side of life.. I visit this site maybe once a week. You can shoot me a message here: Anandamide#7258

>>25619 I sent you a request.

>>24959 I wouldn’t underestimate the feel of grinding in diapers with a supportive partner. The best orgasms of my life have been with a caring female partner by my side, while I’m in a soaked diaper. The only real disappointment is that the orgasms can’t be simultaneously. Or even have the illusion of anything like that. Handjob inside the diaper can be fun. Less mess for both parties. I prefer to be plugged so that helps. If you haven’t tried a footjob, trust me, it’s epic. I prefer socks, they tend to glide on the diaper more, but it’s really lady’s choice there. Stroking a diaper needs less force than a handjob, I find women tend to be more gentle with the foot, and every time has been just epic. If you have a girl into diapers, first, congratulations. Second, vibrators are excellent. But thanks for asking. It helps remind me I’ve had a not-horrible sex life with diapers. Certainly could be worse.

>>25026 You mention handjobs in diapers but your two done it outside diaper Like pressing and rubbing the diaper bulge Especially for her since having the cotton rub her vag (dry or wet) must be like heaven from you especially when you two might be it in a cheeky way like watching a movie and suddenly her diaper bulge is rubbing her during a naughty scene

>>25031 Same replier as above. Female stimulation is a whole different beast. Totally depends on the lady and where the clitoris is, and how it's stimulated. Some women will feel nothing from rubbing or vibing the outside of a diaper, for others it's heaven. Men are just more homogenous because the penis is exposed tissue, whereas with women it's deep tissue. Women are vaginally as varied as men are with anal stimulation. Different parts, but a lot of diversity in what and how it's enjoyed. If a woman doesn't enjoy the external stimulation, you have to go hands on. Either a remote vibrator, or hand stimulation.

Often my fantasy's are wanting diapers to get bigger Don't care how. i just have diaper "sex" (dry humping) and their diaper booty expands as I want more and make mine and their diaper to expand with cummys relaxing in big beautiful diapers

>>24943 I definitely had an wank where I was at half mast, and I still remember the orgasm feeling different than all the rest since. I've tried since then to replicate it but haven't managed to repeat it.

>>25001 Haven't been checked but i sadly think covid went for my dick As i tried diaper thrusting and even used sph inflatables but nothing can get me full mass for full fun so sadly had to stick with wanking only Which is sad cause i can't even do balloon fucking no more (especially when you include it with a diaper it hella good

>>24714 If you buy them at a pharmacy like Boots or Lloyds the staff really won't care. Just try to act like it's normal. Mean it's literally what a pharmacy is for. It's nowhere near the most embarrassing product they have to sell. Worst you'll ever get is a girl behind the counter thinking you're cute and giving you a wink

Shame in the uk we stupidity prefer selling them elder pullups then the poofy tapes We can't even get comfy 24/7 without America charging uk £100

>>24812 Friend and I were chatting tonight at the bar about our Canadian prudeness about nudity and Japanese Onsens where you're expected to strip, shower, and then bathe in the nude with total strangers. When viewed objectively, it should be fine. You don't know the people around you, and they don't care about your nudity. Just strip, wash, and get in the onsen. But our natural prudeness overrides that objectivity and it makes it so unnecessarily awkward. Ditto the pharmacy - find a quiet one away from where you normally shop, walk in, grab it off the shelf, walk up to the counter, pay, leave, DONE. It's over like that, and then you're walking home with a big package of diapers. It feels great! And yet I'm always shaking in my boots...

i haven't had any experiences with inflatables but i'm curious about the first pic in OP: what the fuck is that called? like either inflatable or just made of mannequin material, a lower torso/crotch model that you can put diapers on but isn't a full mannequin/sex doll. i want to get one, put 3+ diapers on it, then rub it on my face

>>24988 There called diaper models Only problem is they never have adult models so they always look tiny Tho i can never get them fully torso ones like the blue body One i brought looked big but were tiny (suprise if you could put baby diaper on it

>>24763 Wow, you weren't kidding. It already 404'd. I can't imagine more of a fucking nothing than that. >>24866 Are we really at the point of using tor? You can't be serious.

I dont really care about the drama thats going around here. This chan is usefull as an anon based ABDL corner, and thats good enought for me. Good luck with this drama though

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