I was cut off by a long time friend of mine. We were friends since grade school and basically brothers. But once he moved to the city he refused to respond to anyone but me for a long while, to the point where our other friends kept asking me >Hey what's up with Anon? Why won't he answer? And he never gave me a straight answer either. The only thing I got out of him was that he felt like a burden, which made no sense because he had a good paying job and people actively wanted to hang out with him. Eventually he started giving me the same treatment. He didn't respond to my birthday message to him so I decided to just drive to his house with a hand written note about how we are brothers without being related and how he's not a burden. Yes it felt a little gay but I didn't know what else to do. He answered the door and was surprised but not mad, I gave him the letter and left. Nothing changed though, I still don't know if he even read it. It's been over a year since we've spoken now and I decided there's no reason to keep thinking about it anymore so one day I just blocked his number and deleted him from everything. I didn't care if he changed his mind anymore, I wanted to be done with it. Though to be honest I still would like him around. He was one of the wittiest and most hilarious people I've ever met and we went through a lot together. But I guess sometimes you can never change someone's mind no matter how hard you try. Thanks for reading my blog post. Have any of you Anons gone through something similar? I'd like to read about it if so!