>>471070 (OP) >>471070 (OP) Difference is what you have now is work to maintain, back then it was little to no work, you might be r type, but more likely you have a sense that the society isn't going to be around in the future, so you have want to invest in it, leaving you with desire for leisure and nothing else pretty much

>>471071 So you have no reason to invest in it*

>>471071 >you might be r type As in Type R personality? Or as in Retarded? Either way you may be correct.

>>471083 No, fast life history. People like this are mentally unstable, and can't see a future because they are adapted to live an ecology that could kill them at any random moment. Civilization is slow life history oriented in it's conception, so r type people are in an evolutionary mismatch if they live within civilization, causes dysphoria

>>471089 Oh you mean hard R people, with the dark complexions.

>>471090 It is K and r type Niggers are more r type then K on the spectrum, Africa is an easy yet unpredictable ecology, which selection r type behavior. Whites can be r type too both because of dysgenics and whites have unique racial behavior that lets them maintain a wider bell curve of genes, meaning you can more anomalies

>>471093 Hard R as in Nigger. Its a joke

>>471094 I got it Either way, it is true

>>471089 >astrology shit You're embarrassing yourself. On the Internet where everybody can see.

>>471100 >nigger thinks everything about behavior is dumb women shit is evolution Seems about right One is few offspring, high investment in the offspring so they are likely to survive into adulthood, the other is many offspring, no investment, few live, none possibly. Each of these reproductive strategies are accompanied with certain behaviors that help facilitate it.

>>471102 In humans they are also accompanied by dispositions

>>471102 And which one is a blowhard faggot that spews bullshit about psychological alchemy

>>471109 I just think the world would be better if people looked at people like animals, especially if the other people aren't kin

>>471109 And I'm r type, not future oriented

>>471070 (OP) If you're going to have kids. Get married. Other than that, WHY?! Marriage doesn't benefit a man. You get married to start a family, not adopt pets. You can have pets on your own. You're always going to look at the past with rose colored glasses. ( meaning, the past always looks better ) Someday, you're gonna look back on your time NOW, and see it as better than you will be. It's a trick we play on ourselves. Anytime you go through a major change, there is a sort of shock to the system, you miss the familiarity of the way things were. It's natural, but it's a trick and a trap. Adapt to NOW, make the best of NOW. Being happy is a choice. Sometimes it takes a little work, sometimes it takes a lot, and with some skill, you'll find more often than not, making yourself happy is easy. One thing to take solace in, if you ever leave your wife or (more likely), she leaves you, you know you can be happier than you are now. Me saying she's more likely to leave you isn't a slight against you OP. it's just the odds. Women get bored. It's a rare woman who holds herself accountable. Most of them like to blame their husbands for everything. Actually, all of them do it, at least a little. It helps to think of women as fools and children when it comes to emotions. Just nod, let them have their moment, pick your battles and stand firm.