>>19928
Anon, that is completely fucked. I cannot hope to match that level of horror but here's my shitty meet up story.
So my boyfriend and I wanted to get more involved with the local little community. We'd heard stories from internet friends about how fun meetups were and all the fun/kinky shit they got up to, so we thought we'd give it a go. Thing is, we live in a small city. We don't even have a gay bar so there's not exactly a thriving kink community for something this niche.
We find the only group that does regular meet-ups and after some umm-ing and ahh-ing we decide to go. It's at one of the guy's houses and on the event page he says there'll be food, games, a ball pit all in a private location, with private rooms for changing. First red flag was the poorly written event page. Poorly written anything just inherently makes me less trustworthy of what I'm reading. I should've listened to my instincts
We arrive at the house and first things first, we're taken to the host's bedroom, and it immediately becomes apparent the entire event will be held in this one very cramped room. A quarter of the space is taken up by his gaming set-up, a quarter is taken up by his makeshift ball pit and the rest of the space is taken up by his bed. There's no room to really stand so the other guests are either sitting on his bed or in the ball pit. The other notable feature of the room is that the curtains on a street facing window are open. The house is on a bit of a slope so cars driving by wouldn't able to see in, but a pedestrian who cared to look close enough probably could.
At this point I'm pretty uncomfortable, but part of me still wants to give it a try and see if I can make some friends, as does my boyfriend. The street seems quiet enough so we decide to take our chances. At this point I ask about a private place to change, but the host says we can just get changed on the bed and reassured us by saying "don't worry we've all seen each other's cocks before." Writing this now, I don't know why we didn't leave then and there. I definitely considered it but I am very non-confrontational and didn't want to seem weird.
So my boyfriend and I awkwardly changed each other, basically in silence. At this point I had pretty much ruled out the host as someone cool to make friends with, but I had hopes some of the other guests would be alright. I was wrong. Nobody else introduced themselves or even talked much except for one guy who was on the spectrum and just wanted to tell everyone about arcade machines. Another guest just spent nearly the whole time on their phone. Any other conversations that were had were started by me, but clearly none of us were extroverts. It was all just polite small talk or talking about gaming rigs, which is fine and all, but I don't think really puts anyone in little space. The food was plain dino nuggets (which the host cooked way too many of) and some candy.
We played some Mario Party which was okay (it was something to talk about at least) but after about an hour and a half we decided to leave. We go through another awkward change back into our big boy pants and go to leave. It is at that point we hear noises from elsewhere in the house. Footsteps. People talking. Noises from other human beings. This fucking guy was hosting a kink meet-up while his housemates were around, going between the kitchen and his room in full little gear, not even trying to hide it.
I was genuinely speechless. By that point what was done was done so there wasn't any use getting mad about it. Nobody saw us but I still felt creeped out. We just left and drove home, and stopped replying to any messages.