>>58220 As someone who got dealt a shitty hand in both genetics and upbringing, it's just learning to emotionally develop: accepting and move on from your problems. Then finding a more centered identity that can get through life and make friends easier. You sound like you were at a disadvantage growing up and didn't develop emotionally like a lot of people do, so you've just got to make up for lost time and get that up to a higher level. Therapy can help, but it's there to facilitate your change, which you have to learn to want and then make happen. Usually it's through realizing and recognizing what it is to exercise true will, which takes some practice and involves a whole lot of complicated shit. This can be accomplished without therapy but it's harder. If that seems impossible or like things are harder for you than others, then remember that even the most mentally healthy people in the world can be stubborn as hell about changing their ways, even when it's for the better. Everyone can act like an immature ass. You are not broken or doomed to be some kind of monster. You're a human being who is behind on some of the key aspects of emotional development, and need some help getting them up to snuff.

>>57976 Have you considered going out and trying to interact with trans people? Perhaps there is a trans person out there perfect for you?

>>58236 ooh, yeah, thats a good idea actually practice talking to real women by talking to fake ones

>>58235 Didn't expect to be motivated in life when I came into this site. This is really great advice, anon!

I can't guarantee this works for everyone, but it has worked exceedingly well for me. If you really want this you have to work for it. 'it' being a relationship with a woman which includes tickle & foot faggotry. A normal relationship takes a shitton of work by itself. This takes more. If you want both you have to work extra hard for it, there's no way around that. Otherwise have fun dealing with the fucking nutjobs who do tickle stuff without relationships. With that in mind, never call it a fetish or a kink. Establish the relationship, be a giver in bed where possible (but not so much that you're a pushover pussy because she'll either get tired of you or will take advantage and never feel she has to reciprocate). Try to steer the sex life towards experimentation, but in a very subtle innocent sort of way, asking if there's anything she's ever wanted to try. Don't come out and be like hey what's your fetish or crazy ass kinky thing you want to do. If she has something like that, you need to coax it out gently. The whole idea of this is that you get her to break the ice on kinkiness, and ideally you'll get to indulge in something she likes so that she'll be pliable to do the same in return. And here's the clincher - when you already have a physical intimate relationship established and she's attracted to you that way, introducing an activity such as tickling which puts the cock she loves into hyperdrive will be such an easy sell. Shorter version. Get a relationship first, get her attracted to you being aroused, give her a means to make you diamond hard. Don't ever call it a foot fetish or tickle fetish. It's just the thing you like. It's worked for me. Sidenote: those uggo chicks make some of the best ticklers if you ever want to swing that way. Tap into that crazy tickler horniness they have from being deprived.

>>58239 OP sounds ready to troon out as it is Though at least (some) trannies and femboys put effort into appearing feminine

>>58015 >The key is to not be too degenerate and This. It's only cringe when she feels that it's separate from the experience and not in the flow of what's going on. Yes, occasionally it's a hard no. At best, they just go with it. Don't introduce it until she likes sex with you and you consistently get her off. In that context, women are very adaptable.

I replied in a whole ass other thread but as a chick with these fetishes, it’s hard but not impossible to find a girl to indulge you. I got driven off of most if not all tickle communities so my slut days are over, but statistically speaking there’s more than one chick like me so don’t lose hope?

>>63903 The majority of ticklefags go tickle-less due to extreme autism, not "because of my fetish". Guarantee you yourself were driven out of those communities due to their intense retardery and not because of any specific thing you did. Most ticklecels will remain that way because of their extreme, overwhelming awkwardness with women and try to pawn it off as "Uh... th-the fetish makes me a weirdo. Yeah, that's it."

>>63909 I’d hardly even call it awkwardness, it’s like a whole other level of spergdom lol. I find that I can carry conversations and be pretty forward/flirty and do most of the work? I’ve even sent pictures of my tits and my feet before. It’s just that they then take it to this whole other level, feel entitled to me and it becomes very stalker-ish. Weirds me the fuck out because I don’t want to get beheaded by some ticklecel over a fucking tickle fetish lmao. Anyway, I can sorta relate because I’d sooner die than admit to any guy I’m seeing that I have a tickle fetish. If he comes about it organically or already has it then I’ve hit the jackpot but otherwise I just lurk or reach out to people myself (usually through TKLMaps I guess, but Reddit is full of soy dudes and TKLMaps has kinda boring lers/more spergs/boomers)— I find the cringe weirdos tend to flood my shit when I leave a form of contact no matter how anonymous it is.

>>63927 To be fair, I wouldn't date you just from your zoomer grammar.

>>63927 >fearing death from a ticklefag pretty sure that would defeat the purpose since the whole fetish is based around getting a reaction out of someone

>>63949 True but I mean, you’re being purposefully obtuse. If a guy shows up to my house/fixes me I think he’s past the point of tickling.

>>63976 *doxx

>>58039 Looks do matter, and the secret to being good-looking is to care about your appearance. Trim your facial hair so you don't look like a hobo. Have a haircut that looks decent with your kind of face. If you aren't confident in doing this yourself, go to a barber shop run by women and frequented by male repeat customers. Ask the stylists for their opinion. Women have an eye for what looks handsome to other women, and men won't keep giving their money to stylists who give bad advice. If you're obese, adjust your eating habits to reduce your calorie intake. You don't have to starve yourself, sweat your ass off at the gym, or eat food that doesn't taste good. You just need to give a shit about the calorie density of what you're eating. Drink more water and less soda. Snack on fresh fruit instead of junk food. Find things that taste good to you, but don't have a lot of calories per serving. Aim for no more than 2000 calories per day if you aren't employed in a job that involves physical labor. That could be 1000 calories at breakfast and 500 at lunch and dinner, or 800/600/600, or less if you find that you aren't lacking for energy with fewer than 2k calories per day, but Breakfast should always be the most calorie dense meal of the day. Bear in mind that if you do choose to go to the gym regularly, you will not magically begin losing weight. You will in fact probably gain weight before you begin losing it, because you will be building up muscles faster than you are burning off fat. Keep a comfortable workout routine if you decide to hit the gym. Consider walking at least a mile every time you go, if they have treadmills that measure distance. Do sit-ups. Swim. Anything you can reasonably do to work out your core and your upper legs without making yourself miserable. The only time you need to be pushing your limits is if you are trying to build up stamina or if you are body-building.

>>87260 This isn't even fetish related it's just good life advice in general. Whether it's a romantic situation, hanging out with friends, going to work ect, people naturally like someone who looks good and takes care of themself.

Most women I've been with enjoyed the foot attention. 50/50 on the tickling, lol Your best bet is to find a nice looking (and acting) girl who's open minded. Easier to make a convert than to find a pure breed.

Why was this dead thread necromanced just to give OP false hope? He probably ACK'd by now anyways

>gives 100% of women the ick its not them. its you

If you think it gives 100% of women the ick you either haven't tried enough women or its a you problem.

>your fault women find you unattractive simps begone

>>87535 >"simps begone" >posts a study that says most men find most women somewhat attractive on average are you just retarded or do you think "the elite" men know better? I don't understand what point you thought you made.

I dont get it as a women whats so attractive about feet?

>>87558 One of the key points of any fetish is that unless you have it you most likely can't (fully) understand it, so that's normal. Regardless, I've had beef with a couple of girls who love attention to their feet (to the point of orgasming from foot worship alone) but still don't get why men can be attracted to them. It's like an oppostie to the majority of foot fetish content creators who are actually not into it but they know how to show their feet in the sexiest way possible thus attracting a lot of followers.

>>87547 Tell me you've never taken a statistics class. >doesn't understand the implications of women rating 98% of men average or below Simp. >>87563 >women orgasming from foot worship alone Literally impossible outside coomer fantasies. Pics or it didn't happen.

>>87578 this motherfucker gets no snatch lmfao

>>87558 It varies from person to person as to the reasons people like feet. For me, I love the way they can look (long and slender or curvy are sexy), the way they smell, taste, how ticklish they can be, and so on. Like the above anon said it's not something you can understand if you dont have the fetish. I'm happy I have my fetishes though, they compliment each other so well.

>>87582 Neither do you if you call it "getting snatch." Post physique.

>>87605 Who fucking cares of they call it snatch nigga? What are you? The vagina police?

>>87605 >if you call it "getting snatch." Here's why you're a virgin; the way someone describes it with other men isn't what they'd walk up and describe it to a woman they're "simping" for. This is why you don't get any pussy and find it insane that ANYONE would EVER get any.

Fuck it there's zero point trying to warn you goddamn faggots. I hope you do get added to the sex offender list because you looked at a femoid "wrong" (subject to her own interpretation and hormones at the moment) and gave her the ick. You want to support this gynocentric society you can fucking suffer until you beg for the sweet mercy of death. Zero sympathy.

>>87650 Lmao now you're resorting to fake reddit posts? Come on now

>>87650 Lol dude's having a pathetic ass meltdown and then blames "muh cringe feet and tiggle kinks" for not getting any pussy. Maybe you're not getting pussy because you're full of anger, hatred, and insecure as fuck. It's not your kinks that are cringe anon, it's you. Women find YOU repulsive, not your harmless (and vanilla af if we're being honest) kinks. Work on yourself. Grow, mature, improve.

>>87650 Not sure what you are talking about, even most of the girls I talk to find my tickle kink cute or adorable. Maybe calm the fuck down and be a gentlemen first?

>>87668 Nigga sounds like a Supreme Gentleman as it is

The fetish is cringe and retarded because it's full of people like OP