>>8808 >Could you somehow conditioner her to like it? Not without also using shampoo. Jokes aside: yes. You already partially answered your own question with positively reinforcing wanted behaviors: wetting and messing herself means orgasms. Wearing diapers means orgasms and other rewards. You can also play with this by getting her close to orgasm and then denying it until she tells you how much she wants to cum in her wet/messy diapers. This will further drive her to want to do what you want because she wants to orgasm. Keep her on the edge of her seat and fulfilled and she'll be whatever you want her to be. This works best if she's submissive in bed. Show her what good girls get when they behave and listen to their daddies.

Just be happy if your GF starts to get off on you enjoying diapers. This is a lot more attainable. It's called... love. You can condition anyone for anything, but attempting to pressure someone into something is not as fun as it sounds.

>>8808 Nice, now try answering the question of if you can get a gf in the first place. Just kidding you absolutely have no bitches on your dick to be asking this

>>8808 >why, tho? Don't. Let's say she is willing to give it a go. She won't be doing anything but wearing it at first. Adding a sex to this scenario is like saying "my baby is giving his first steps, let's try and making him run". You'll end up fucking your relationship. >>30472 >that's right If you love her, you won't try to train her like she's an animal you can experiment with. >>30473 lmao, most based answer so far

Thats preposterous.

>>8808 Yes

>>8808 >3DPD

What's up with all the retard threads lately? Did 4chan normies finally find their way in here?

>>31602 >>lately The OP is from February of 2022. It got a single reply and was then ignored until someone decided to bump it last month. As for the topic, conditioning someone into a fetish is theoretically possible since humans are still susceptible to pleasure and pain conditioning like other animals, even though we're capable of being consciously aware of conditioning and it's consequences. Plenty of drug users and addicts can attest to the power of it despite being aware of the negatives as an example. The problem of conditioning anyone into a fetish is it would probably have to involve the target being unaware of it (at least in the initial stages which is kind of where lifelong fetishes naturally come from), the target being coerced (via pain or threat for not complying), or consenting to it in the first place (again, at least in the early stages of conditioning). It should be obvious that the first two involving what would be gaslighting and physical and mental abuse would be horribly unethical and immoral, and also illegal in much of the world. So yeah, unless she's consenting to it or you're actually willing to commit domestic abuse or force her into sexual slavery while inducing Stockholm syndrome it's not something that will happen outside of porn. I feel it should be stressed again (because we have had some real predators and nut jobs into ABDL and some seemingly delusional posting here) outside of her consenting to it don't try this.

Many guys have converted their GFs into liking abdl

>>31609 [1] "Trust me bro" (https://8chan.moe, circa 2013)

>>31610 I guess you know what you're taking about since you obviously have access to a time machine.

>>8808 Yes. I've only done this twice and I am married to the 2nd person. Both girls were regular vanilla and didn't even know what BDSM meant prior. Also, I am more DL and not into the AB side as much so I am speaking from that perspective. Step 1: Get a proper GF first Know your non-negotiables on the things you want in life and will not tolerate if a partner doesn't meet them. This includes family, religion, politics, sex, etc. and let her know these things early on (within the first 2 to 4 dates). Don't waste your time on a person who you think "will change later" just because you want to put her in a diaper. You'll get wrecked. You need to be aligned with this person. (P.S. her liking diapers is NOT a non-negotiable) Step 2: Know how to pleasure them Take charge and initiate their sexual pleasures first. Be curious about discovering what they like, what turns them on, and how you can get better at it. Eat them out, experiment with touch, and flat out ask them what would make their experience better if you have to. Learning their body and getting better at pleasing them will make them crazy about you and they will return the favor by wanting to sexually please you. Step 3: Talk about your fetish early Depending on how quickly you both start getting intimate, this could also be Step 2, but the bottom line is that you need to tell them you have this fetish as early on as possible. Of course, you need to build some trust and even hint to your fetish little by little, which could take months, but don't keep this bottled up for too long. The longer you wait, the worse it will be when you drop this on her later. Be 100% honest and speak positively about what you like about it and why you like it. Step 4: Listen to her reaction She's going to tell you if she wants to try it or not, whether it be during that conversation or if she wants to think about it for a bit. Don't be afraid to ask her what her opinion is, but don't force the answer. As I said, I've only done this twice, but both times, even though it wasn't their thing, they both said they would do it because they knew it was what I liked and that they wanted to do it for me. If they say no, it is what it is, but you have to decide what to do from there. Step 5: Get her to want it to do it A few things I tried was telling my partner that if she wore a diaper, I would always be 100% sexually on all the time. She would be an irresistible peak sexual desire for me that I would never deny no matter what. ALL women want to be desired sexually and will go to great lengths to achieve it. Naturally, this is her favorite part about doing it is because she knows I can't resist her. Other things that make her want it are making sure she gets off whenever she's wearing them. It's not that we don't get off during regular sex, but when diapers are involved, we bring out toys, scenarios, and the sessions are much longer. We buy a pack of diapers and try to get through them over that next week and this happens about every quarter. I am more than happy. What happened to the first girl? Well, I fucked up on Step 1 and picked the wrong person to start dating. Too much baggage and red flags I saw early on that I thought she would just "change" but it never happened and we broke up. I wanted to get her in diapers so bad I ignored the warnings. I don't recommend. With my wife, I almost fucked it all up up by not doing Step 3 and I dragged out telling her for over a year when we were dating. I alluded to the fact that I had this big sexual desire, but left her in the dark about it for so long that she considered breaking up with me over it because she was scared of what it was. It also affected our sexual intimacy a bit early on. After telling her, thankfully, she was glad I wasn't into some crazier shit. It's possible, you just need to give before you get.

Yes. I got my wife into wearing diapers, and it's taken years of classical conditioning. (Basically, I just made sure she would have an orgasm every time she wore or removed a diaper.) A few weeks ago I added some "diapee magic" cream to her diaper before putting it on her. After I warmed her up with foreplay, I used a wand vibe on her and she came in less that 2 minutes. I'm not saying "just use diaper lube and a vibe and shell love it!" I AM saying that conditioning is possible, and if you aren't offputting about the fetish, she can enjoy aspects of it too.

>>31614 >>31622 Do you get her to wear outside the bedroom often

Yes, of course you condition a girl to like wearing diapers. Women, by virtue of evolutionary instinct to emphasize with their own children, tend to be more submissive and infantile. It’s just a matter of “are you attractive enough for her to get past the initial discomfort to try it.” The real question here, is it possible to condition a girl to be a Mommy because being dominant goes against their nature. Other opinions welcome & arguments welcome.

>>31945 Empathize, not emphasize damn it!

>>31945 >The real question here, is it possible to condition a girl to be a Mommy because being dominant goes against their nature. I disagree your your premise. My wife started out entirely vanilla but I got her into mommy play. Women love the idea of nurturing babies, having unconditional mother-child love, and nipples are an erogenous zone that - according to my wife - feel better sucked than flicked or stroked. She enjoys holding me, cuddling with me, singing, nursing, etc. Our "dirty talk" often consists of her talking about putting me in my crib/playpen etc., putting parental controls on things, dressing me as she pleases, etc. The only thing she doesn't do is change diapers used for anything but cum, but that's pretty understandable.

>>31966 >The only thing she doesn't do is change diapers used for anything but cum, but that's pretty understandable. so literally what is the point then

>>31966 That's interesting. I agree that women have a nurturing side, but that's usually reserved for their actual children, and not their partners. Is your wife on birth control (shot, pill IUD)? Supposedly this can make women less attracted to doms and more attracted to subs. How were you able to get her to start & even enjoy it? My current girlfriend very much enjoys being a little at this point, but switching has not gone well - not that she won't, but it's very clear she does not enjoy it.

>>31982 >so literally what is the point then I'm an AB more than DL so I actually love all the cuddling and breast sucking. It's way more important to me than peeing myself. >>32007 >IUD No, we use condoms + monitor fertility using thermometer >How we you able to get her to start? It took a long time before I revealed it. Early on in the relationship I told her I had a secret fetish that I would need time to talk to her about. After about a year she nearly guessed it (she hadn't heard of ABDL before but she did seem to get that I liked the little boy-mommy dynamic). I opened up to her about things and we kind of felt them out from there. I would say that it was easier in my case because it's clear that this is the main dynamic I enjoy. She appreciated having an easy way to turn me on, and since this is the easiest way to do it, she started to naturally gravitate toward it. I don't think this works as well if you have a girlfriend who already indulges your fetish in a different way like being your little. She enjoys it because she knows how much I like it, and as I said in the first post, nursing is very stimulating for her. We're switchy too but she doesn't do any little play. When I'm "on top" she usually wants me to do really vanilla stuff - fuck her, call her beautiful, talk about impregnating her, etc.

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>>31605 I'll be honest, someone being forced into a fetish or other sex thing unwillingly then later enjoying it is pretty hot. Cognitively I know the concept is immoral if acted on in real life, but someone being inflicted with pleasure until they break is an interesting fantasy from both from the viewpoint of someone experiencing it and some forcing it on someone else. There's a ton of porn involving some sort of coercion so the idea is certainly popular. I also like porn where someone is aware of something having negative consequences, but also really into it so submitting overtime anyway, giving into pleasure and orgasm hell.

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I'm still trying to get my girlfriend to actually LIKE the diapers. She's been wearing off and on to bed since childhood for bedwetting, and there was quite a bit of abusive trauma involved there. Thankfully for me there, actually engaging in diaper play physically isn't something I care too deeply about; she herself is simply more important. As much as I do love diapers, she's managed to be worth more. But she is okay with wearing them pretty much all the time now. And it does help with nerves, especially stress induced IBS. So that sort of makes me happy in a twisted sort of way, which she is absolutely aware of. And I fully hope the fact I love it gives her some sort of comfort, rather than simple necessity.

>>35611 Constant positive reinforcement got me to like them from my ex. When i was depressed they would put me in diapers and hold me chest to chest and tell me "it's okay, you're safe." Or when I was fussing about something they'd get me into diapers and kinda force me into littlespace and put cartoons on and stuff. I wasn't inherently into it, but the more care I got out of it and the more it was used as a safety/comfort thing the more i wanted it. I cant believe i wasnt even interested in it a few years ago haha