>How should having a tickle fetish be brought up with a partner The second fucking is on the table, you need to at least hint at it. Bringing it up too late is obviously worst case scenario. Too early is, obviously also not good, but the second you're with someone who is open to traditional sex, that's your window. If someone's willing to take you're dick, they're -generally- open to indulging not-extreme fetishes at least once.

>>42969 *you're dick your goddammit

>>42970 "you are a dick" Fixed it :)

Tickling was brought up straight away in my relationship. She was actually the first one who brought it up, it's common knowledge in my friend group that I like feet and tickling. I don't give a shit that people know. Turns out she shared the kink, we took things from there. Ironically she was aware of my art from like, 10 years before we even knew of each other's existence.

>>42973 stop flexing, kron, this threads clearly about people who's partner isn't into the same thing. ... but yeah my ONLY advice is to try and find a parter into the same thong. how the fuck do you even tell a normie that tickle torture is the only thing that can make your PP hard?

>>42974 same thing*, even. you can be into thongs too, though, that's ok.

>>42969 I don't care how much someone likes me there is simply zero chance that person is gonna wanna get into a pair of stocks it's just way too far out there for them.

>>42976 too bad for you, I suppose

>>42974 Honestly the key is to find someone who is indifferent to it. Like, the majority of normies won’t share the kink, but I can vouch and say that zoomers (my generation) are open to most things as long as it’s not utterly repulsive. Run far away if you find that a prospective partner is going to utterly repulsed by the idea though. You just need someone who is indifferent at bare minimum.

>>42977 It's not just a me problem though lets be honest it's an everyone problem anytime I've ever seen anyone in lee position is if they are being paid for it

Just don't do what this guy did

>>42987 >I was extremely ticklish and was wearing a dress which revealed almost every ticklish parts of my body like my armpits and belly button. Very believable story.

>>42990 Yeah, that line made it clear it was written by a ticklefag. Especially because she was supposed to be sleeping, who the fuck sleeps in a dress.

>>42987 What motivates one to act in such a autistic manner ? Do they simply lack the brain power to feel shame or know better then to do this?

If you find someone who cares about you enough they'll most likely be willing to indulge you. My girlfriend has 0 interest in tickling but she still lets me tickle her to get in the mood. Thank God she's ticklish as hell.

My personal strategy? >Egg ‘em on by poking them and squeezing their sides >Overreact like hell if they get you back >Like even if you are ticklish (I am) act like MUCH more ticklish >Depending on who they are, they could tease you for it, apologize or ask you if you want them to stop >If they react in a way that’s positive or apologetic, respond with either >”I like it too” >or “It’s okay, don’t worry, I like it” >At this stage, they either have a positive attitude towards tickling or they don’t, it really depends on the person >If it’s positive, keep up the play every now and then without pushing it any further until it just becomes a normal part of your relationship >After a while of this, pick a time you deem suitable to sit down and admit that you maybe also might be attracted to tickling sexually >If this has been a sorta regular thing, they’re more likely to take this well, but it’s never 100% certain >If they do, celebrate a job well done by screaming “let’s fucking go” at the top of your lungs right in front of your partner >Alternatively, they might just figure it out before you even admit it, because people aren’t always completely clueless and most have access to the internet >Yadda yadda, they’ll take it good or bad, you get it I’ve used this strategy on a couple partners, and it worked out more often than not. Not a perfect way to go about it, nothing really is, but it’s worked out for me a few times at the very least. Though it probably helps that I’m leaning more lee, I dunno (audible shrug)

>>43289 I like that idea but I don't laugh much at all in general an trying to do fake laugh would probably be painfully awkward

I’m in a weird position with all this. I’ve been with the same girl for over a year now who is not ticklish in any way and even she was surprised when I told her about my fetish and why this didn’t bother me. It’s because I’m a tickling voyeur. I brought it up in another thread but I enjoy watching it happen but don’t like to be involved directly as ler or lee. Meaning I can watch a tickling clip or two to get nice and worked up and then totally fuck her brains out. Maybe it’s because she’s not ticklish and has nothing to be freaked out over but she actually finds the whole tickle fetish scene pretty fascinating. She’s pretty cute in the way that she’s been trying to figure out my preferences and pick what clips I watch herself as a bizarre form of foreplay. Maybe we’ll get to a point where she’d be willing to tickle another girl while I watch. We’ll see…

>>42967 Make a friend. If they're a good friend and you crush on 'em, think about dating. If you notice they're flirty and like you, try to date 'em. Now, here's the trick: Date someone who is open to at least discussing oblong sexual stuff. You'l get to know their openness to this during the Friend or Good Friend stage. Once you're dating, you can be as blunt or strategic as you want. If you like feet, make references to rubbing theirs - or just straight up ask, "so... what kinda quirks of yours should i expect~?" and then trasition to how one of YOUR quirks is kinda sorta feet. Bonus if you meet them in an online area where they already know - or have been made aware of - your lewd inters

>>48899 *interests Oops, accidently'd half a word. And fwiw, this goes for tickles, armpits, bondage, and literally any interest.

My gf has her own, unrelated kink and that was what gave me an in. We discussed it before we started dating and were just friends and that honesty probably helped it to become a relationship. The important thing is that they're open minded, they don't need to be into it, just non-judgemental. They might learn to love it, they might be indifferent. In my case, she loves bondage so we were able to work out something that works for us both. Expect to have to do things they like that you're indifferent to, too, because relationships always come with compromise. If you date someone who is horrified with it or refuses to try, you probably shouldn't date them. Your sexual preference might be unusual, but it's not unusual in itself to have desires. If they can't love you for every part of you, what's the point.

I don't bring it up. It's a trap, because if you bring it up right away you sound like you're just wanting to force your depraved fantasies on them and if you wait to bring it up it sounds like you were hiding things. I wait until they invariably want to know what my fantasies are or what turns me on, then I softball into the prospect and never call it tickling. Light touches, super gentle massages, teases, etc. It takes a lot of patience and a little subversion but if done right you basically have them introduce YOU to the fetish so you can 'admit' that the crazy thing we did last night was really hot. At that point the association to pleasure is ingrained and you're golden with the freedom to pivot further into the fetish.

>>48964 This may hands down be the best way to approach things I’ve read in here so far. Would suck though if you went to all that trouble and time only to find out she’s not ticklish or had an obnoxious laugh when she’s tickled or something else unfortunate.

I got lucky on my end because she brought up her kinks first which paved the way for me to share mine.

Ive always just been open and upfront. Whether they are kinky or not, Ive just said this is me and explain things what I like and ask them what they think. havnet had anyone run or be repulsed. Most have been curious and tried it to some degree.

Like this. "Hey bitch! You ticklish?!"

Bumping an old thread! Casually testing the waters like in >>43289 worked for me. One time it was a jackpot with her responding "don't worry, I like it" lmao >>48964 seems like a good strategy if you know or at least suspect that your partner is very vanilla and doesn't know much about kinks Would love to see more ticklefags sharing their introduction tactics here

Ticklefag since forever here. Maybe its just the type of woman that I work well with but for me its always been something Ive been extremely open about. Always outright said: "Okay here is something that you should know about going into this relationship." and never did I ever get a disgusted reaction. Kinda the opposite. My first GF actively tickled me from there on out because she wanted to test the waters, next GF was showing her feet on call for teases etc. Whats extremely important is how you approach it. Saying "yeah im a ticklefag" is obviously cringe but you cant make it sound like an awful thing ever. Being all like "youre probably gonna hate this..." is already a bad start. Keep it neutral and normal. Its a thing you cant control so be open with your S/O. "Hey I dont wanna keep this from you" is good. "Im obviously not going to force you into anything if you dont want to" is also a plus. Let her knows its always going to be consensual and her choice. Most women are more curious than anything. Also dont show her too much stuff youre into if she doesnt immediately show interest in the kink, youre gonna come off as a creep otherwise.

Don't. Ever. Period. You're basically giving her a free pass to go jump on Chad's dick. This childish and cringe fetish is pure femoid repellent and if you don't know that by now, enjoy being added to the sex offender list when she runs as far from you as possible. Either enjoy your new life as a vanilla normalfag, or consider the relationship already over.

>>85121 shut up faggot

>>85121 Ignore this retarded idiot Probably watches a bunch of super realistic podcasts that talk about all women being dumb I'm not one to give advice but if I were to give some, this wouldn't be it

how does one go about getting a partner? I assumed I was among fellow permavirgins

>>85132 In 97% of cases (this means you) yeah. You don't. Keep to yourself, don't make eye contact or even be around a female lest you give them "the ick" with your "incel creep vibes." Looksmaxx, hit the gym, and absolutely ignore 3d females at all times. Interactions should be like with a cop. Look straight ahead, yes/no answers, leave asap. Or end up like this poor bastard.

>>85006 >>85121 >>85127 >>85152 Gee I wonder which anon has more experience and has the better advice

>>85164 >topic of this thread was literally "how do I force my fetish on someone who's basically guaranteed not to be into it" It's not my fault you can't handle a harsh truth. Even leaving aside the majority of people (including women) are either not ticklish or hate being tickled, you're trying to force compatibility when there almost certainly is none and going against fundamental female nature. It will end badly one way or another. This fetish. Is childish. And cringe. Full. Fucking. Stop.

>>85166 By emotionally cucking yourself, you will never find a woman that trusts you enough to try a different fetish with, you joyless ape. But at no point will it ever be my problem

>>85169 K. Let me know how it goes when you become the "creepy weirdo" to her friend circle. I'm sure she'll find plenty of Tinder chads to satisfy her fetish for being choked, slapped, strangled, pinned down and taken by force. You won't learn the necessary life lesson, life will teach you much more harshly until you get it. And then it is your problem. Sucks to be you.

The quality of the board has been going downhill recently. Where did all these retarded shitposters come from?

Simple answer: Honestly. Really, get some dates in, see if you two mesh personality wise, then talk about it. "Hey, I've got this weird thing", etc etc. It's not nearly as big of a deal as it's made out to be. Will everyone support it? No, same as any other kink. But I've had 2 exes now that both HATED being tickled and they still let me have my fun with it, because that's how relationships work. But fundamentally, if there isn't a connection there at the get go, you shouldn't be getting to that point anyway (assuming dating/romantic interest, a bit different for FWB)

>>85006 This anon knows what he's talking about. >>85170 You are a slave to your insecurities. Take responsibility for your own loneliness instead of shifting the blame onto women (as if they weren't each unique individuals instead of a monolith hivemind that is universally into chad or being choked/slapped/whatever) and better yourself. Stop listening to “alpha” male/Andrew Tate bullshit, get off the internet, go back into the real world, and mature as a person. Finding a partner that loves you for who you are and will accept your sexual quirks is not the indecipherable riddle you’re painting it to be. It’s only impossible if you’re a child filled with rage and envy, because no one is going to waste their time trying to fix a loser that resents them. That’s what therapy is for, not a romantic partner. As someone with a loving, vanilla girlfriend that has absolutely zero problems tickling the piss out of me because she adores making me happy and sharing of my kinks, I will tell you right now that the black pill is a lie that pathetic ass men tell themselves to avoid growing the fuck up.

>>85170 Have you ever spoken to another woman besides your mom? Lots of people in my circle know about my fetish mainly because I dont really give a shit and neither do my friends. Its fun to joke about it with everyone as well. The number one response I got, and this is by a large margin, was "Oh thats a surprisingly cute fetish" or "thats really innocent" But yeah when you introduce your fetish by saying shit like "I am thinking about locking Samus Aran into an interdimensional tickle world where she gets tortured until she cries and pees" yeah, you will be the weirdo. But as I said before, in my experience a tickle fetish is seen as one of the most innocent kinks that works great with established consent and gets people more curious than disgusted.

>>85170 i think you should kill yourself

>>85186 >exes >had >>85188 >Finding a partner that loves you for who you are AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA >>85189 How many girls have you pulled this year? Post physique or stfu. >>85190 Don't care.

my girlfriend just asked me what my fetishes were and I told her, she's not very ticklish unfortunately (or maybe fortunately?) but I like to poke her body regardless. Feet and armpits will sometimes get her to jerk, I've caught her yipping with the feet sometimes too. She'll also tickle me but I'm not very ticklish myself (a bit more than her though...or maybe it's just that I'm into it

>>85196 Why are you spreading Manosphere rhetoric on a tickling forum of all things? Do you wanna tickle Andrew Tate or would you prefer he tickle you since you're a little bitch.

>>85199 He is mostly right tho. I have plenty of experience within tickling community, IRL and online. An overwhelming percentage of ticklefags are complete autists with zero communication skills, both men and women. They're either utterly scared to admit it outside of some extremely niche tickling chat or going full "hello baby r u ticklish send feet pics" mode. Looks like an an intense awkwardness is ingrained into this fetish. Trust me, it is much, much easier to introduce your preferences to a person who you already know and who is open minded enough than specifically searching for a ticklefag.

>>85199 He is mostly right tho. I have plenty of experience within tickling community, IRL and online. An overwhelming percentage of ticklefags are complete autists with zero communication skills, both men and women. They're either utterly scared to admit it outside of some extremely niche tickling chat or going full "hello baby r u ticklish send feet pics" mode. Looks like an an intense awkwardness is ingrained into this fetish. Trust me, it is much, much easier to introduce your preferences to a person who you already know and who is open minded enough than specifically searching for a ticklefag.

If you ask me...It shouldn't. Ever. I've tried, and I was being as careful and honest as possible, still led to nothing but disaster.

What's wrong with you fags acting like this fetish is somehow the biggest taboo of all time? Have you never heard of "French ticklers" or the phrase "slap and tickle" meaning foreplay? Do you not know why peacock feathers were common boudoir accessories for \\literal hundreds\\ of years? I swear there's some weird mix of masochism and egomania going on in this kink. Everyone is all >oh boohoo the NORMIES wouldn't GET ME because I have this fetish that makes me so DIFFERENT, woe is me Fucking get over yourselves. Like yeah having any kind of autistic obsession is offputting to anyone who doesn't share it, and learning to read people is a valuable skill that you have to work at, some more than others. If you can't get it halfway up without seeing a loli strapped into an industrial tickle torture machine then well it's not the "fetish" that's the problem. And being a retarded sperg about it just makes everything worse. Leave the self pity phase back in 2005 with your Myspace account and "You laugh at me because I'm different, I laugh at you because you're all the same" shirt and move the fuck on with your lives seriously. I see why content creators get fed up with this shit community and call it quits.

>>85231 thank you for having a sane take anon

>>85232 It's the least I can do. I just get sick of the wallowing in misery. I swear some of these people have a moping fetish first and tickling second. I remember as a mere unsupervised tadpole finding a foot fetish website in the mid-late 00s, dated even by the standards of the time, with celebrity feet pics and references to their takes on feet stuff from interviews. Some 20-30 prominent female celebs including Britney and Carmen Electra all mentioned that they got off on having their toes sucked. So I don't want to hear word fucking one more about what an insurmountable curse this or that fetish is.

>>85231 >a loli strapped into an industrial tickle torture machine I agree with your takes, anon, but doesn't that sound hot tho?

>>85233 What is this photo??

>>42967 its kind of hard for me honestly. when im asked what im in to i kind of omit being into tickling cuz its seen as weird for chicks to like it, but i sometimes drop jokes that insinuate i do. shits hard out here man.

>>85231 a LOT of these guys are actually, literally autistic. Many rarely have romantic relations. These guys genuinely ARE witless retards, and a lot of them have so little awareness to that fact that they honestly believe wanting to tickle a foot is the sole (tee hee) reason they're fucked up.

>>85241 Comedian Brad Williams, an actual midget, with his wife and (normal size) daughter. The takeaway isn't "all women want chad" it's "no woman (or anyone else) wants to be around a pathetic whiny sad sack with no interests or hobbies beyond feeling sorry for themselves." Nobody's life improves without taking the necessary steps to improve themselves first. >>85238 Get help.

>>85275 You're right, anon. I should go to a rehabilitation facility. Where they will tickle me until I change my ways.

>>85196 "how many girls have you pulled this year?" None. I have a wife.

>>42969 > "Hello I'd like to torture you for my sexual pleasure" blocked an never talked to again? I don't reply often, or mostly ever, to anything here. But I seen this and I just wanted to say. Anybody blocking you at the drop of a hat isn't worth your time and effort, and more importantly- your affection. Chances are, those (as I've named them) "ick-swipers" would have just as easily have blocked any normie for as having an Android phone over an Iphone- as they would have all the same for you and your interest. Don't feel like you've lost out on anything with them. I assure you, they're throwing away more than you've "lost".